My gf and I where talking about her ex. She was basically telling me she didn't even like him or have chemistry with him, but he was just sooooo nice to her, etc. 95% of the things she told me I knew to be true because I had read the comments they used to leave each other back then. Only thing that didn't check out was how she felt about him. I believe her when she says she didn't really like him, she seems congruent (she dumped him too). But when they first started dating she told him she likes him sooo much and luvs him, etc.
I confronted her about this and she said she did like him at the time (early on) and there is a difference between loving and being in love.
She told me she only went to see him once (true) but I asked her if he ever came to see her or met her parents, she said no. I confronted her with proof then she admitted he did. But she said it was on christmas, when in reality it was months before.
The past is the past, I know.
2007-05-24 15:02:15 · 9 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend who knows a lot about this stuff says trust is important but this a non issue because she probably did like him at the beginning but only stayed because he was soooo nice to her but obviously didn't really like him when she dumped him when he was about to move to be with her.
I highly doubt she has any feelings for him, but why tell me so much truth about the relationship, even tell me she went to see him, but hide that he came here and met her parents? Granted it was two years ago but how do you forget something like that?
2007-05-24 15:05:59 · update #1
My issue is this: She told him she likes him, loves him, thinks he is a gift from God, etc, but then dumped him when he moved to be with her citing not wanting a bf in her life right now. 5 months later she meets me. Tells me she didn't like him. 95% of what she tells me is true, but claims she never really liked him, she went to see him once (true) but he never came here, when I know he did. Acts like she forgot. Claime he never met her parents. But he did. Why be so honest about everything else but lie about this?
2007-05-24 15:11:06 · update #2
Let it be. If it bothers you so much that you're still posting about it on here, then maybe for your own sanity, you should break up. Otherwise, let bygones be bygones and look to the future. You're making a mountain out of a molehill.
2007-05-24 15:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Flamekat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 07:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing she was nervous, all these questions she probably thought she was being spyed on or something. Trust your girlfriend, the other guy is her EX, && she broke up with him, dont worry about her, just treat her right and she will stay true to you. Oh, and girls dont like it when ex's are brought back up, it just brings up drama with it.
like you said the past is the past.
2007-05-24 15:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was prob. infactuated w/ him in the beggining. She got together with him for a reason. She might have stayed in her relationship b/c he was nice and stuff.
And you're looking too much into it. Get over it, and move further in your relationship. You're going back by questioning everything about her past relationship. Seriously, Get over it! She's with you now and not him so cherish what you have and move further in your relationship.
2007-05-24 15:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~**~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lying outright about her past. That's not a good sign. Sure it's the past, and it should stay there. But she's lying about it now. And she's desperately trying to qualify earlier statements instead of just admitting to it.
I think your girl has some issues. Be careful with this one.
2007-05-24 15:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry, but I really don't understand what you are getting at?
You're pissed because your girlfriend DIDN'T like her old boyfriend? Weird.
2007-05-24 15:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insecure? She's with you now. You're going to push her away - leave it alone.
2007-05-24 15:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me you're a little insecure?
if your girlfriend says she doesn't like him anymore, then she doesn't like him anymore. of course she liked him when they were dating, otherwise they wouldn't have dated.
just start trusting her.
2007-05-24 15:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by ohitslaurennn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about this whole thing with her past i don't see what is bothering you. really what is your problem because she is with you now.
2007-05-24 15:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by ugug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋