I have been told I am an attractive/cute/hot boy. I am 21 years old and in college at the momment. Anyway, I suppose the purpose of this question is that I have never had a girlfriend, and I am trying to figure out why this might be. Am I attractive and thusly girls might find me intimidating? Or am I just not that good looking? Anyway, here is a link to a picture from MySpace.. I appreciate the input!
http://a126.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/50/l_e569a842b25743093a65e5239101e7ed.jpg
2007-05-24 14:59:00 · 21 answers · asked by Adam W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you're cute but looks aren't all that matter.
At my work, I have tons of hot guys in all the time and quite a few of them hit on me but it is rare if I even hgive any my phone number.
The first reason I don't is their attitude, some guys know they are hot and they're sooo cocky about it. I wouldn't be intimidated to ask them out but the way they talk and act is a turn off. Always be warm and friendly and above all, modest (even if you aren't, just act it).
Secondly, tons of guys aren't my type. Some of them dress way too... I don't know, emo? Some of them dress like absolute crap. I kinow girls are suaully the ones who dress to impress guys but honestly, why shouldn't guys do it too? Regardless of the fact that everyone should take pride in their appearance. Always dress neat and walk with confidence.
Another reason is that I don't really know them. When they start coming in more often, I'll be more willing to go on a date with them. You need to open yourself up to girls. Talk to them more and pretty much charm them with your personality. Make yourself unforgettable. Looks are good, humour makes you unforgettable too. If a girl you're into has a boyfriend, don't close her off. Maybe her and her boytoy will break up soon or maybe she has other hot friends to introduce you to.
Always be polite to girls. Say please and thank you. Open the door and pull out their chairs. Guys don't do that stuff anymore and if you start doing it, trust me, it will go a loooooong way. My girlfriends and I are suckers for guys with manners.
Lastly, smell good. I lovelove guys who smell good. Don't get too overenthusiastic with the cologne bottle but spritz a little so all the girls will swoon. When buying one, stick to a quality cologne and ask for female opinion before buying it. I help a lot of my guy friends pick out cologne and I half want to jump them myself when they're wearing it. If you can't afford cologne, a nice bodyspray (NOT axe) will do the trick too. Just remember to use it sparingly.
Good luck!
2007-05-24 15:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by SM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u do look very good.....I have to agree even though I'm taken I do think you're hot. I'm really not one to check out white boys but if I was single I would date you. Maybe you're not confident or maybe you're over confident like stuck on yourself and cocky. Girls, don't like that or at least I don't. I mean it's good to think you're hott but don't get a big head about it if you will. Just be confident and maybe you need to quit being shy and you need to start hitting on girls. You know what I'm sayin hey at least if they say no (which I doubt it) ur not loosing nothin but if they say yes then you're gainin somethin possibly a gf. Just go for it. Trust me I just turned 22 yesterday and I'm also in college.
2007-05-24 15:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend cant shop himself off me ;] and he's notably ****** notably spiced so identity say conserving a handsome guy for 3 years on an identical time as a stable quantity of his friends had to **** me (before i pal zoned all of them into no desire and no probability of direction) is a sturdy sign im on the gorgeous edge, additionally i've got been purely approximately no make up ever, i rock that organic look and shrink my very own hair and bangs x]
2016-11-05 07:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're cute, but you're not my type. But i'm sure some of my friends would do you in a heartbeat.
Maybe you give mixed signals to girls, or you are insecure so the uncertainty is projected to girls when you're talking to them. You should try working on yourself on the inside and work on your insecurities so you have the confidence (not to be confused with *********) to get a gf
2007-05-28 11:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by I_heart_geometry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are fairly attractive. Maybe you just haven't find the right girl yet. Perhaps your expectations for a girlfriend is too high or maybe girls get that feeling from talking to you? I have no idea, but the problem is not in your looks.
2007-05-24 15:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're attractive, but not intimidatingly so. Sorry to burst your bubble. Girls aren't generally intimidated by hot guys anyway. It's all about personality. And having the balls to ask girls out. Become friends first, and move on from there.
2007-05-24 15:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Flamekat 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
very hott... if i were single i'd definitely look you up.
Sometimes girls just wait for the guy to make the move. And if you're shy at making the first move than they might just think you're not interested and not wanna ask you out.
I'd say if you like a girl then just ask her out and see what happens. I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there that would love you date you.
2007-05-24 15:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are definitely the most amazing looking man I have ever seen. Your picture as well as your cartoon character is gorgeous. When I look into your eyes, I feel the ocean breezes against my face. Why girls don't date you? I don't know. That's ridonculous. Yes, I said riDONculous.
2007-05-24 15:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, you're cute! Maybe you're just not confident about it, or else your personality turns some girls off? I don't know - and trust me, most girls wouldn't have to look twice to know that you're worth it ^.~
2007-05-24 15:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ur hot but it might be your personality...gets me every time....you might just be dorky or weird or silly and need to find a girl who appreciates that
or shy that to could be it
2007-05-24 15:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by all_your_poison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋