it is so hard to find a man today that has great qualities and someone who u can trust. i mean i really wish the guys on movies were real. it just seems all guys are the same, they date someone to date someone, not for a real relationship. is the older guys the ones who are most likely the relationship type? and can u fall in love again?
2007-05-24 14:58:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you say about a lot of high school guys is true. most of my guyfriends admit to me that they don't even like the girls they date, that they're just in it to have someone to do stuff with. but that's just high school. it's always possible to fall in love again. you just have to wait for that special someone. not everybody is the same. there's always someone out there for you.
don't give up hope.
2007-05-24 15:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by ohitslaurennn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can love again, but you never forget that first love. they seem to hang around in the back of your memory, and come to light ever so often, but in a gently like way. The good things that you done together. Older men don't always treat a lady right either. some of them are users, and especially the married ones. they won't give up their homes or wives, but will have long, sordid affairs with other women.
2007-05-24 15:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are out there. But you need to wait and watch for them. Don't settle for someone because you don't want to be single. Then you might miss him when he shows up. Always be yourself and find a person that wants the real you.
2007-05-24 15:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do the very same thing
they date for dating's sake
for fear of truly liking and falling in love with someone
part of your problem is you lack a focus in what you want
day dreaming of movie guys is a farce to yourself
you are in love with a romantic image / vision sold to women about unrealstic men who simply do not exist
are their good guys
yes..
are they like guys in the movies.. no
but you will zero in on any guy who you think is a movie type only to find disappointment
is it any wonder why realty tv series feature very good lookng people who usalty disappoint AFTER the series is over..
becuase true human nature works opposite of TV
did you remember average joe
where the stacked the odd and place a very good looking guy against the average Joe.. and in the end the very attractive girl went for the very attractive guy.. of course she did.. when faced with that option.. of course after the series ended she was seen as less than for bailing on average joe, but her relationship with mr hunk never panned out either.
yes you can find love
but first you must like yourself and be a proud women who values herself
so many do not and thus are not looked apon for long term relationships
after all who want to be with a women who will later complain, nag and evetualyl divorce, all because she does not like her self..
where as a women who has confidence and a personality is always sought after, as is the same attributes in a guy
2007-05-24 15:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is!i no exactly what you mean. yes of course you can find love again though.it may be hard to move on but you can always fall in love more than one time.people who has lost a husband or a wife do it all the time!
2007-05-24 15:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kaitlyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a teacher once told our class...that fallin in love wit a person is easy...you can fall in love with anyone in the world...think about all those guys you had crushes on...you could have loved him...the probably is findin the right guy for you....you can love more than once, but findin the right person is the hard part
2007-05-24 15:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by ryan_duz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in love over and over. Older men are great but they have more baggage that comes with them such as ex wives and kids.
2007-05-24 15:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 1st love was NOT my true love. They are different. My true love is my wife. But to find her I had to encounter many broken hearts along the way.
Yes, you will find love again...and eventually you will find that TRUE LOVE!
2007-05-24 15:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Brian VandeWalle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. You actually have a chance of finding someone even better.
2007-05-24 15:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u may fall in love again. everybody deserves 3 strikes. after that there done 4 . everybody knoes dat...
2007-05-24 15:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by Cheri F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋