my boyfriend treats me like sh!t.?

Question

ugh im like crying right now.my boyfriend is such an @ss sometimes.its like he doesnt think about my feelings.like he can do whatever the hell he wants and it doesnt matter but if i say something about it he goes crazy and yells at me and is a jerk.i love him like no other but sometimes he is just an *** and makes me cry.maybe im just sensetive but i hate how he gets sometimes.like he does nothing wrong and everything is my fault.godddd.its getting even more stressing because he is going to college in 2 months and i will be a junior in hs.we both know its coming(were planning to stay together and weve been dating 2 years) which is causing us to both get stressed and easily irritated.am i overreacting? i hate how he makes me cry

hes the most incredible guy ive ever met.its just when we fight he wont give up until i apologize.nothing ever gets solved because im not always wrong! i have so much fun with him and i spend every minute i can with him but lately hes decided to hang out with his other friends a lot.he says its because he wants to hang otu with them before leaving.i thnk hed rather hang out with them than me

i cant imagine my life without him.we broke up twice before this 2 year relationship and realized how much we needed eachother.

Answer 1

Stop crying, and tell him, in no uncertain terms, that either he treats you decent, or you will find someone else. there are more fish in the sea, and i am sure that you can find someone who will be good to you. don't let him put you down like that!

Answer 2

Doesn't sound like he's a prize catch to me. Besides, there's obviously a bit of an age gap here. It may only be a few years, but if you're still in high school, it makes a huge difference.

Look at it from the outside for a minute. He yells and makes you cry if you disagree with him. And you think he's a jerk and an @ss at times. I think you need to let this one go and find someone that actually cares if you are happy. He's going away in two months anyway, and the chances that a long distance relationship between you will work is probably less than 1%. If you can't break up before then, tell him that it's over when he leaves. If you're really meant to be, you'll find each other when you're ready. But in the mean time, let go of this hurtful relationship and be happy.

Answer 3

If he's doing this now, just imagine how much worse it'll be when you get a place together.A lot of physically abusive relationships start off like the one you're in. Besides, he'll probably find some college chick to hook up with when he goes off to college. Honey, don't waste your time or tears. Kick this fool to the curb and enjoy your teen years. Besides, I'm pretty sure you'll meet someone who will love, respect, and treat you like the jewel you are.

Answer 4

I mean if you want advice take it from me i went through the same things you are and let me tell you if you dont get out now things are going to get worse for you it looks to me that he has controll of you and you let it happen ignore him for a day or 2 and if he dont call you he really dosnt care but if he does answer it and tell him how you feel you can do it and it is only going to make you stronger and when you have someone ele it is going to show your heart is going to get stronger your 2 young to be worring about that mess leave him alone and you get into control<3
Good Luck sweetie

Answer 5

This is not a healthy relationship and if he is off to college there is no doubt he will be breaking up with you for a girl there or be cheating on you. He sounds like he needs help which we all know he wont get. Find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who loves you for yuo and wont treat you bad. You know in your heart that its not working hon you need to follow that and be true to yourself. You need to be happy before you can make anyone else happy. Let him go and find someone better.

Answer 6

Well honey, no matter what anyone tells you to do, you obviously love this guy and won't just turn your back on him, even if you're mad at him. Take it day by day. Changes are coming, which you know. Although it can be tough, you both can weather the storm if you're meant to be together. But remember to take care of yourself first. Don't ever let anyone mistreat you. Ever.

Answer 7

there is a saying in love...

you get what you deserve

to that end you do not love yourself enough to LEAVE
it's not that hard
there are plenty of guys
he IS replaceable
and so are YOU
in a relationship
so why fixate on something that can be easily remedied simply by removing him out of the equation
if he treats you like crap and you stay
then you deserve what you feel like you are worth
and that means you are worth as much
when you get backbone and self pride then you do not put up with any sort of behaviour and do not cut any slack
unless of course you are desperate for a guy
then you behaviour figures

Answer 8

I think u both need to evaluate whether u need to be together. Or Maybe u should try to take a break when he goes to college and see if its better that way,. Hope everything works out!

Answer 9

I'm so very sorry this is happening to you. If he loved you as you do him, then he really wouldn't be treating you this way. The wise thing for you to do is leave him. And the sooner you do so, the better off you'll be. Good Luck.

Answer 10

Girl, let me tell you what's gonna happen and I am sure 99%. I ain't gonna sugarcoat things... He is gonna sleep with one of the girls in college. No wait... not one... more than one, yeah I know he will. He's an *** and he will sleep with them and not even care about your feelings. Just end it now, if he is crazy now imagine how he will be in college and we know college guys are way worse than high school guys. Eek, can't even imagine. Dump his as*.