Would you rather have a boyfriend/girlfriend who everyone is always being flirted with, & chased after, (and you are usually caused by the effects of this too) or a boyfriend/girlfriend who no one can stand but you?
2007-05-24 14:51:14 · 8 answers · asked by Laur 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
neither of the two: when you have some one who people can't stand, it sucks and it's hard to convince your relatives or Friends that he's actually the kind of person you need in life.
Flirtatious ones are bad for your relationships: they either make you jealous by flirting too much with other people even the ones you can't stand or you will personally be jealous of the wide acceptance he gets from people over a period of time when his flirtatious style doesn't amuse you any more.
So browse for some one in between!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-24 19:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by bEiNg DiScIpLiNeD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my own personal reference, i think i would prefer the guy who is always being flirted with and etc. i mean, yeah i have gone through that before, been with a guy like that. it's only because i'm totally not the jealous type. i trusted him and he never done anything like that to lose my trust.
it depends on how you look at the guy. if you trust him that much, him having people flirt with him shouldn't bother you THAT much because at the end of the day, you know he's yours and you are his. at least other people will be jealous of you guys =)
and for the boyfriend/girlfriend that only YOU can tolerate.. i guess everyone bf/gf is someone only you can stand. i don't know, it's just that because you are in a relationship, it's all about cooperation and both of you guys' willingness to accept each other and their flaws.
hope that answered your question!
2007-05-24 21:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. I want a normal person, not a flirt-bait and not a pain in the as* for everyone around me.
If he was the last man on the planet - I'd probably go with number 2, but maybe I'd rather stay single.
2007-05-24 21:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-05-24 21:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by alovera2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Ducky, To be honest somewhere in the middle !
2007-05-24 21:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a very flirty type myself, I cant see myself with someone other than that type.
2007-05-24 21:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that would nt do it for me,where are all these other attractions coming from. what is he or she putting out there.
2007-05-24 21:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by glenys l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to have a a boyfriend whop is independent
2007-05-24 21:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋