so the other day I asked about the white gilr that hit on me. Well .... the unthinkable has happened. I went home with her after work and one thing led to another. Now, she has been texting me all day (I had to upgrade my text messaging plan so she doesn't jack up my cell phone bill). Apparently she is some kind of semi-nude model and she keep sending me all these pictures. Im thinking I may have made a mistake. The newness is already starting to wear off.
What now?
2007-05-24 14:10:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes race is relevant. I can't be with a white girl. Not serioulsy. i thought we were just going to have sex.
2007-05-24 14:18:05 · update #1
You can't be with a white girl? You already did! Now she's got the hots for you, and you want rid of her...because she's white. Sounds racist to me. How would you have felt if she had told you "I don't have sex with black men."?
In any case, you'll have to be forthcoming with her. Go ahead and tell her that you just used her for sex, and that you want nothing more to do with her. And be sure to tell her to stop texting you and running up your phone bill. That should get rid of her....fast.
2007-05-26 02:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are sorry if you lead her on but you are not interested. If it really comes down to it tell her its because she acts too needy and is racking up your cell phone bill. But is her race of any relevance? Sorry I missed your other post.
2007-05-24 14:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been up front with her in the first place, now she looks like a fool. How would you feel if it was the other way around and she was ashamed of or trying to hide your race?
2007-05-24 15:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by JůnəßůĢ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cmon my black brotha' dont make the rest of us look bad. I love white women and if you just hit and run then you will make the rest of us look bad. Just be cool about it. The newness to you will wear off of her in due time unless you were THAT GOOD. Then at that point you have a fatal attraction.
2007-05-24 14:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by dummundkrank 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You tell her that you made a mistake, and that you're sorry, but you're not ready for a relationship right now.
2007-05-24 14:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont work if you are sick of her already. seems alittle too full on. let her down gently.
2007-05-24 14:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you ask this already?
2007-05-28 11:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sober now. Tell her to go to hell.
2007-05-27 14:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by devotedhusband 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋