My younger sister is really getting on my last nerve. She is a theif and I can't take it any longer. She started taking my shirts and I tried not to make a big deal but then one day I was taking the laundry basket downstairs and my bra was in there. I told my mom she needs to talk with her because if she didn't I knew I was going to kill her. She has taken money before, my brush, makeup, socks etc. Today I went in her room to tell her something and in a pile of laundry I see my underwear with a dirty pantyliner inside. I ran outside tell my dad and he says he can't do anything and that I'm over reacting. Am I or do I have a right to be angry and believe something should be done?
2007-05-24 14:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have every right to be angry! shirts and whatnot i can understand, but once she stars taking your underwear, then that's just too much! set rules with her, try to get your mom to talk to her too, not only is it unfair, it's definitely unsanitary!
2007-05-24 14:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, I would of said a while back to bash the crap out of her cause she is an annoying little *****, but since leaving home and experiencing things ive learnt a few things.
One day that same bra and knickers theif that is your sister now will become an invaluable ally, the "blood is thicker then water" saying is much more then words let me tell you. Its entirly possible she is doing it for your attention because you dont get the same reaction normally.
Try giving her attention, taking a half hour or something to just talk with her see whats going on in her life. If she sees that your making an effort to pay attention to her she will probally stop.
The more you shut her out, the more annoying she will get. Also doesnt she have her own panties, u dont need to share or something ^^
2007-05-24 14:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would have killed her. I don't know how people can share underwear like it's nothing. I can't do that.
I'd tell your sister that she needs to stop going into your room, and maybe see if your mom will let you get a lock for your door. Tell her that if she takes one more thing from your room that you'll do something to her stuff... Like take her favorite something from her. IDK what would personally get to her but i'd work with whatever she's afraid of.
Good Luck!
2007-05-24 14:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i grew up in a house of all girl so i know what your talking about maybe telling dad wasn't a good idea cuz boxers are boxer and they don't know but mom would and is it that you have different undies my lil sister would do that to me and take my thongs so i went out and got her some like 3 pair and she stop taking mine see my mom didn't want to but her them so i did . as for the stuff get chest and lock it up or lock your room but yes you have a right to be mad its yours not hers tell her to ask before then maybe if you are not using it then it would be okay you just have to think why is she taking the undies as of make up and clothes that's life and just tell her to ask before and to take care if not take one of hers or make her pay for what ever she messes ups
2007-05-24 14:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put a dirty panty liner in all your clean underwear and I bet she'd think twice before using them.
Hey I'm a guy, if my brother ever used my underwear... uhhhm, just turn it inside out. eewww, is that what I heard you say?... lol (maybe use water colors to make the liner(s) look used.)
2007-05-24 14:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r not over reacting. If its ok by your parents for your sister to do this then I would start taking her things and hiding them, then when she starts complaining i would pull her aside and tell her youll stop if she stops taking your things.
2007-05-24 16:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have the full right to be angry. i think if your parents aren't doing anything that you should take matters into your own hands. take some of her stuff and see how she likes it. and tell her see how i feel when you do that to me now please stop. and work it out from there.
2007-05-24 14:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is taking your things because she idolizes you. You can try spending time with her, "loaning" her things, making her feel special. She'll stop doing the things she is doing.
2007-05-24 14:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can buy her an extra pair next time when you shop for underwears, the same size, the same style, so she won't feel the need to take yours any more.
2007-05-27 19:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH something would be done. if that were my sister. it would already be over. i would somehow get back at her. put a lock on my door. anything i would hurt her haha.
2007-05-24 14:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋