ok so..... there is this guy that i like
his name is bradley
weve been best friends for as long as i can remember and this year we have become even BETTER friends... right now he has a girlfriend but i know he doesnt like her cuz he tells me like, idk... 20 times a day and well..... he told my bestest friend [and one of his best friends] that he kinda sorta liked me yesterday... but i really have no clue WHAT my question is... i guess im just wondering what to do?...
2007-05-24 13:25:20 · 12 answers · asked by yelly_1313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that you should talk to him, and if he doesn't like his girlfriend then he shouldn't be going out with her. And if he does like you, would you be willing to risk your friendship just to go out? I mean sometimes afterwards if you break up, you can still remain friends, but sometimes it just never works. just really think about the decisions that you're going to make, ok? good luck with everything. don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable with (such as going out with the best friend) or that you'll regret
2007-05-24 13:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Emma Chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him make the decision of who he wants to be with. if he tells your friends that he likes you then he should dump his gf for you. Dont be a homewrecker though, if he has been with this girl for a long time then i think that you should back off because he has more history with her than with you. plus..you wouldnt like it if you had a bf and youve been with him for a long time and some whore came along and took him away from you just like that...so just give him some time to decide what he really wants
2007-05-24 13:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can hang back and wait for him to say something -- I mean, he is your "best" friend or somewhere in the vicinity, right ? Will he speak up ? If he doesn't -- ask yourself : Do I like HIM? And if you do, also, hint around and try to bring it out of him if that makes you feel more comfortable. Otherwise, you say something. How's that ?
2007-05-24 13:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by CHRISTOPHER C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him face to face and ask him how he feels. There is no better way to face your problems head on! But be careful, if you've been friends for a long time it could be hard to find the right thing to say. Just go for it and don't sweat it that much!:-)
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-05-24 13:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by iluvturtles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep him as your best friend i would advise you to not take it to the next level.Just because he told you he doesn't like his girlfriend does not mean you can take him away from her after all he is still with her isn't he.How do you no he isn't just trying to get in your pants.
2007-05-24 13:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to break up - cuz if he doesnt like his girlfriend and he likes you, chances are he'll break up soon - then start dropping hints that you like him. if youve been friends for forever then itll be easy to talk to him a lot and keep you on his mind so then he'll probably start to like you even more. just be a good friend, but start to act like you wanna be more than friends. im sure itll all work out fine, good luck!
2007-05-24 13:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by mandyxox321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and let the other relationship end. You don't wont it said that you caused therm to break-up. when he is free then let him know how you really have grown to have deep feelings for him. Let nature take it's course and see how the relationship turns out. Good Luck!!!!! Hope it works out for you.
2007-05-24 13:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out is my opinion, don't try to rush him out of his relationship with the girl because he may think that you are desperate for him, play it cool for a bit and let things play themselves out. You'll know if the right time comes to go for it and start your realtionship
2007-05-24 13:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by fezz349 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...tell him you like him! If you know he likes you, and you like him, then you have to make it work. Just let him know that you feel the same way. If he really doesn't like his girlfriend that much like you say, then it'll be fine.
2007-05-24 13:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by purplegrl28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him then you should totally ask him out and if you don't like him then you should just stay friends with him.
2007-05-24 13:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Christine K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋