i mean besides acting like a $lut - which id never do - how do you really get a guys attention. i dont mean what i should wear or anything but how should i act? like do you like it if a girl looks at you a lot? stuff like that. even suggestions on like what i should say would be wicked awsome
2007-05-24 13:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by mandyxox321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some slightly flirty physical contact IE a hand on the back or shoulder briefly men don't get as much physical contact with anyone as women do so a little goes a long way. Show some depth in your conversations with him. Allot of looking and eye to eye stuff is great!! Hide your insecurities men can smell those a mile away!! Be as accepting as possible of his negative attributes, we are trying to be the best that we can be!!! Try to find out what you have in common IE books, movies, music, TV shows, and hobbies!!
2007-05-24 13:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. Usually, acting flirty with a guy works. Laugh, joke, talk. If he's a guy who's looking for substance, for example like me, you need to show you have substance. Best way to show that is in class, if you have a class with him. Or when you're talking to him, talk about some more serious things, school, current events. But 80% of the time, flirty works best. Even guys looking for substance like it a little bit.
2007-05-24 20:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
a smile and a hello would get most guys attention --- your body language will also let them know you are interested and it really does not matter what you wear its about attitude and no not acting inappropriately an open honest happy sincere pleasure to be with the person will work wonders --- best wishes
2007-05-24 20:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Acting like a slut will get you attention, but not respect.
Talking about something in common is good, or find out what he likes and talk about that.
2007-05-24 20:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about talking to him? How else could you expect him to get to know you? All males are interested in themselves and what they like. Just watch him and you will know quickly. You gotta talk to him if you expect to get anywhere. Remember that he is just as afraid of you as you are of him. Girls can show fear, it isn't a manly thing to do. Use that to an advantage. All males are problem solvers by nature.
2007-05-24 20:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by charliehc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, someone who doesn't try to get my attention. Someone who can be themself and make me notice without trying to. And it would help if they knew me already too. Meaning get on a friendly basis with the guy (not too friendly...that would be awkward), and then just be yourself. If i were him, I'd notice.
2007-05-24 20:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment him, talk to him, but don't look too obvious. Plus, this varies for different guys.
2007-05-24 20:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Colin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose not to answer for one simple reason you should be asking your mom not us.
2007-05-24 20:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to him
2007-05-24 20:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by fifty.rider 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋