ok.. so i have been dating this guy for over a month. we are not officially bf/gf. he pursues me quite a bit, but just in the past day i am really confused. he has bought me chocolate, taken me to the movies and for ice cream, he always waits around for me between my classes and in the class we share he always hangs around me. we have gotten to know each other a lot and i really like him. last night on im, he randomly stopped talking to me but was still online, this didnt really bother me, i figured something came up. (by the way, he always starts our im conversations as soon as he sees i am online, i rarely do unless he doesnt) but then later on in the night after i had signed off and signed back in, he was also online and i said hi to him and he never said anything back, and he has never done that before. then this morning, he didnt wait for me after 1st period as usual by my locker, but after 2nd period he DID wait for me in the usual spot, and even gave me a big hug.
2007-05-24 13:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by hottie:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.. i thought.. thats weird. then in art class he was acting sort of sad and not his usual self. tonight on im he didnt talk to me again, but i dont want to talk to him after he completely ignored me last night. how do you think i should handle it.. should i talk to him? im scared he'll ignore me again! thanks=]
2007-05-24 13:21:17 · update #1
ask him what is going on that is really the only way you will find out
2007-05-24 13:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 month give the guy some breathing space. It could be any reasons that he did not im you. And since the 2 of u r NOT officially bf/gf then why sweat it? In a month it is surely not the end of the world.
2007-05-24 20:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should take to him the best way you know how. If he ignores you then you should just hang up the whole relationship but, if he give you the time of the day then you need to talk to him with a open mind.Then you should really find out what is really bugging him.
2007-05-24 20:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, asks why he's not responding on IM and if everything's okbecauseh eseemed sad in artt etc. Then tlak to him for a while. Theeen ask him out =]
2007-05-24 20:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by firestar1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ignores you then you really know where you stand --- until then you need to talk to him and find out why the change --- best wishes
2007-05-24 20:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not an item, so his time can't be expected to be with you all the time...I suspect he has other interest too...when he does direct all or at least most of his time , then he has choosen you to become an item with.
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2007-05-25 10:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by sruthi j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋