I just cant think of anything to say to my girlfriend.. and i dont want to say anything wrong ... im always right next to her i just cant seem to find a conversation
2007-05-24 12:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anything. Anything at all. You could be cute and ask her what she's thinking or how her days was. Or what she's going to be doing in the following days. What she wants to be when she's older. There are so many things to talk about. You just have to be able to keep up a conversation. It takes practice. You'll get it eventually
2007-05-24 12:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wrong there. You should be able to talk to your girlfriend about almost anything and not worry about saying something wrong. She's probably wanting you to open up more and talk to her. So tell her a story about soemthing funny that happened in the past or that day and it may start a conversation that's what i always do. Good luck!
2007-05-24 19:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sada_Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't under estimate the value of a pleasant silence. Sometimes people just need to shut the f up. (see Pulp Fiction, scene about the uncomfortable silence at Jack Rabit Slims)
Just share what you are thinking with her, but be sure not to share everything.
Ask questions, women love to communicate/share. Her answers will spawn more questions from you. And before you know it you'll be in a 20 min conversation.
Bottom line, stay relaxed; and don't feel the need to fill every silent moment with meaningful conversation.
2007-05-24 19:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know anything about what she likes? For example, TV shows, books, celebrities, etc. If so, make that the topic of your conversation. But if all you know about her is that she likes fried rice, don't start a conversation about that.
However, if you DON'T know anything about what she likes, then talk about what YOU like-- for example, you might say something like, "Can you believe Jordin won 'Ameircan Idol'?" if you're a big AI fan.
Just go with your gut feeling, dude. Good luck.
2007-05-24 19:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyKitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk about the weather or how her day has been. Talk about something that you know will spark a convo, like shoes or something. Then from there you can talk about anything.
Just stop being so nervious, u landed the girl just let it flow a bit, its unlikely that you can say something that will piss her off (unless you call her fat or something)
2007-05-24 20:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a big problemo
cuz if u dont talk to her she might break up with you
ok an easy thing to start the convo. off with is how was ur day
u doin any fun or something like that
the hopefully it will snowball and become a good conversation
2007-05-24 19:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to sweetin' thing up a little say you look good today and ask her how her day was and make sure you smile like you mean it. Don't ditch her 4 your friends. Joking and just being ignoring and just be you not a F A G and show off
2007-05-24 19:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kaylalious♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u cant find sumthing that u can talk about than find sombody else and move on u r free u can find the right things to say
2007-05-24 19:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋