he came here from NJ and he is constantly telling me i'm fat[like 10 times a day!] and im not even that fat im just a little chubby and i know that, but it really annoys me and hurts me that he tells me and ive told him this and he doesnt understand..what should i do, what should i tell him without being disrespectful?
oh and please no mean comments like maybe you should loose weight, iget enough of that with him?
THANKS
2007-05-24 12:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he says it infront of my parenst and they dont say anything and yeah im comfortable with the way i look
2007-05-24 12:46:25 · update #1
Tell him...in front of your parents.....you are hurting my feelings and I now want to avoid you. Please stop harassing me.
Then turn to your parents and say....please make him stop!
2007-05-24 19:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
save That theory on your Head And stay The Hell far out of your Uncle. tell Your mom and father in the hot day He Mite no longer wait that you'll become older To Have sex With You tell YOUR mom and dad once achieveable!!!!!
2016-11-27 00:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by byrne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's your photo online, then your uncle is a fool. But to the question you've posted: Please tell one of your parents what this uncle is doing. He is NOT in a good place personally, believe me.
This uncle is totally insecure or he wouldn't bother trying to offend others. He is uncomfortable with who he is himself.
Please know that what he's doing is wrong, and should be shared with another adult near you. You deserve the best, and I trust that you can seek that help.
Good luck, and let me know how you're doing in a couple of weeks, o.k.?
2007-05-24 12:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but does he call you fat..or gordita..in Spanish...if he calls you gordita is his way of saying he loves you and is just an alias...so don't get offended cause even if you were skinny he would called you flaca..OK that how he his he needs to find something not to make fun of you but to get too you in a weird way.... Es Amor...a la Mexicana...lol..that how some uncles are...i guess especially if your Mexican-American we get that a lot....OK hope that's the case OK so even if you would lose weight he would still call you gordita so life with it....
2007-05-25 12:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by SoL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him look if you want me to respect you like a uncle then you have to respect me for who I am your telling me that Im fat hurts me in way you dont know I have feeling like anybody else and if you cant see that well
2007-05-24 12:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you spot a sore emerging on his lip and that greatly concerns you.
2007-05-24 13:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sister, your uncle is mean to say that to you. people tell me mean things also. it is hard to forget what they say to you. talk to your parents and tell them what he is saying to you. mother of three.
2007-05-24 12:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to please him there is no other way round but to loose weight. but you are comfortable with your self so jsut don,t bother.he will eventually get tired
2007-05-24 12:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by tring tring 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell your parents!!!
How rude of him!!!
2007-05-24 12:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋