17/f/cali
my boyfriend, who is in college, likes to get drunk every afternoon. I like partying too, but sometimes he takes it too far. we play this game where he does a shot of vodka off of my belly button and then slaps me in the face.
he says that's normal in his frat and all his frat brothers do it too. but my cheeks are starting to hurt. do you think this is normal? guys are wierd sometimes
2007-05-24 12:23:34 · 17 answers · asked by perfect_scrotum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him and quit drinking. Honestly! Why would you be with someone like that?
2007-05-24 12:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hesitate most times in answering questions from the younger generation as my age usually makes them think that im a fuddy duddy but this one isnt going to get past so here goes. There is absolutely no time appropriate for a man to slap a woman period end of discussion. If someone cares about a person they will avoid hurting them as much as possible and would never think of hitting them. I would suggest that you tell him that if he wants to hit someone to go hit his frat brothers. This is only going to lead to it carrying over to him slapping you when you argue. Put your foot down or better yet find someone that respects you as a person as it is obvious that he doesnt. Peace.
2007-05-24 12:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by dashadow452 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave this relationship now before it goes any farther, and it will eventually. Why would you want to be with someone who hurts you? Dont let it go any further, get out now. The next time he wants to play that "game" tell him you have a game for him. Tell him each time you take a shot you kick him in the balls. See if he likes that "game" and let him know that all of your friends will be coming by to take turns too.
2007-05-24 12:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, I do not forget that this isn't some thing that you'll administration and also you try very confusing to attend to it. in case you do not have a fashion to stop it your self, then perchance you need to ask for professional help. talk with someone, enable others help you with the help of it. this is going to likely be sturdy for both you and your boyfriend. sturdy success! :D
2016-11-27 00:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by byrne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump him because no guy has the right to hit his girlfriend no matter uf it's a game. its disrespectful and shouldn't happen. if you keep letting him do it he might be really drunk one day and hurt you bad and he'll think its a game. either he stops hitting you and getting drunk or you leave
2007-05-24 12:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stop him from hitting you is for you to dump him. Striking a person is not an expression of love,
2007-05-24 12:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't run......then take up an
old iron cast skillet and hit him
on the cheek as hard as you can...
then when he wakes up tell him that
that's what girls do in an abusive
relationship..... then ask him,
how does it feel ????
2007-05-24 13:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if he hits you, he has no respect for you. He is not worth your time......there are too many guys out there that respect women for you to stick around in this type of abusive relationship........ In the words of Miss Jenny......."RUN, FORREST, RUN"
2007-05-24 12:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And then it will escalate to more than a slap a kick here and there a few more broken bones ...wake up
2007-05-24 12:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shuld jus tell him that it hurts and if he rly cares abt u he wont hit u, and he can still have a gd time w/o hitting u
2007-05-24 12:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋