so i use to go out with my old girlfriend. to me it seemed great, i loved her and she loved me. but then she frackured her ankle, she wasn't answering my calls or messages to her. when. a few days later, when i finally reach her. she said that she thought that we should take a brake b/c of her ankle and she wanted to focuss on her school work b/c the school year was coming to an end and we could pick back up in the summer. i respected that. so it's been probably a mounth now. and i've left her like 3 messages asking about her leg and how she's been. same old thing, she answers once saying her leg is fine and how i am. i tel her and theres no answer back from her. i'm just really confused b/c it seems like she's trying to avoud me. and i really care for this girls. so please....HELP ME!! REALLY NEED IT!
2007-05-24 12:18:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would recommend trying to talk to her in person, and see how she really feels
2007-05-24 12:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by loli turd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she is being very inconsiderate by not giving you a reasonable answer IS the answer. She does not want to talk about it, she does not want to talk to you. I've been in the exact same situation before and obviously, she wouldve gotten back to you by now if she really wanted to. I doubt a broken leg has impaired her ability to press the redial button.
Excuses are very indicative of how she feels. the fact that she can find soooo many reasons to not be with you should also tell you where she stands right now. You should be with someone who always chooses to stick with you and not make you chase after her blindly like this. She obviously can't be upfront about this if she's still avoiding talking about it. Read between the lines. It may be hard to accept, but you know its better that way.
2007-05-24 19:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by mgirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space. Maybe its just time that you both took a break and focus on yourself. But yeah like all the other people have been posting, she's probably just trying to dump you....really look at the whole situatin and maybe things will connect. Good luck to you and always remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea!!! Even though it may hurt to move on and stuff eventually that hurt goes away... =)
2007-05-24 19:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by BuNNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all if she hasnt said anything about you getting back to gether with her then you 2 prob wasnt made for each other from the beginning she's trying to send a hint that she wants it to be over...the best thing is suggest you to do is act like you dont care and everything would go into place either shee will want you back or youll just move on and another girl will come along :)
2007-05-24 19:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, don't call for a while, give her time to miss you and if she wants you back she will let you know! Relationships are hard, and it hurts when some one avoids you, but either way you will be ok, it just takes time! Good luck!
2007-05-24 19:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by jra60411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she's not interested in a relationship with you at this time. Give her the space she asked for. If she contacts you, then you know she wants the relationship. If she doesn't, you need to move on. You don't want a relationship with someone who doesn't want one with you anyway.
2007-05-24 19:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she used her ankle as an excuse to get away from ya, i'd go out and meet new girls, and let her know that you're doing so, and then maybe she'll come around again
2007-05-24 19:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry to say this but i dont think wanting a break was because of the ankle. I just dont think she wants to be with you anymore.
2007-05-24 19:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My recommendation is to just stop asking about her leg. you are in the beautiful position for the best break-up scenario. the fall-apart. you just kinda drift apart and it doesn't get messy. when you see her be polite but formal start girl hunting again. go on with your life.
2007-05-24 19:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she might not like you anymore . People then to change all the maybe it's best that ya'll stay apart for awhile . Good Luck !
2007-05-24 19:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋