My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship but love each other completely. I went to a party with friends one night and we all crashed at one of our male friends houses. I slept by myself in a spare bedroom and left the next morning. My boyfriend has now said that I lack loyalty and respect and does not think that we can continue to be together.
Have I made a relationship ending mistake or is it his insecurities that are fuelling his anger? He has been repeatedly cheated on in the past by other women
2007-05-24 12:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were all **** hammered Guys and Girls) and decided the best thing to do was leave the cars and go home together because we were only able to get a cab.I have apologised repeatedly and offered him the names and numbers of the people I was with in order to prove I have nothing to hide.
2007-05-24 12:23:16 · update #1
you did nothing wrong. tell him he needs to trust you. and that you won't hurt him.
2007-05-24 12:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has some serious trust issues. I wouldn't put up with it. So when this smoothes over, next time you will remember not to tell him where you stayed. Otherwise, get someone closer that would be happy that you didn't drive home after a party!
2007-05-24 19:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his insecurities. You did nothing wrong because you didn't cheat. If he doesn't trust you then there is no need for you to be in the relationship anyway. Find yourself a man who will trust you.
2007-05-24 19:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you made any problems with what you did. You slept in another bed, by yourself. It also seems like you werent kissing or hugging with any guys. Your b/f might be assuming you went to a party and flirted with other guys. I would talk to him about it. A nice long talk.
2007-05-24 19:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by vanhalenrules85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right-he is abviously very insecure. You did NOTHING wrong, but it sounds to me like this relationship is probably not gonna work out. Would he rather you have lied to him???
2007-05-24 19:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by guess?again06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is ruining the relationship over his insecurities.. just let him move on and find someone with whom you don't have to be in a long distant relationship with...
2007-05-24 19:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you were wrong or not-- to him, it was wrong. In his mind, sleeping a some guy's house was wrong.
Whether you think so or not is a different story. He thinks you were wrong.
2007-05-24 19:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's looking for an excuse to dump you and you gave him one.
2007-05-24 19:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋