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2007-05-24 11:55:44 · 9 answers · asked by jaggy_233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes its a problem. Maybe if you did something to lower her self-esteem, she would lose the confidence needed to flirt with other people.
2007-05-24 14:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Derek 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Here is the deal, I was faced with a similar situation recently where I had interest in two different girls, and they had/have interest in me. I talked to the both of them as friends, but in one of the two, I found something that really drew me to her, so I told the other that I just wanted to be friends because I had a major interest in the other.
I don't think it's right if you like one girl enough to start the courting period, yet continue to flirt heavily with other girls.
I don't think it's wrong to talk to other girls and keep those lines open, but if you are serious about wanting to date someone, then you should commit yourself to making that happen until you know it's not what you really want.
You are dealing with more than just your own feelings.
2007-05-24 12:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by flirting? is she just a really nice, friendly, extrovert? that's what i am, and i get accused of flirting all the time.. yet, if there's no ulterior motives, what's the harm? try talking with her about what she specifically does that makes you feel she's flirting freely... maybe she doesn't realize it... maybe it's her way of getting your attention... make sure you are paying enough attention to her and see if that helps... good luck!!!
2007-05-24 12:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'd say it is a big problem. flirting is still cheating and there is no respect for the person you are with. Why flirt with someone else when you are in a relationship with someone already and supposedly love them? It makes no sense to me.
2007-05-24 11:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are just big flirts. It doesn't necessairly mean that person doesn't want to be with you or would cheat on you. You have to figure that out for yourself.
2007-05-24 11:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by guestnurse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only a problem if you think it is. Do you trust her? Does she trust you? If the answer is yes, then there's no problem.
Hang in there.
2007-05-24 12:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by the mauler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH, DUH IT'S A PROBLEM.
DOES THIS NOT ANGER YOU WHEN SHE/HE DOES THIS? WOW, IF THIS SITUATION DOES NOT BOTHER YOU, THEN RETHINK IT. IT SHOULD.
THAT PERSON, WHEN FLIRTING, IS BASICALLY SAYING "OH, I'M 'WITH' YOU, BUT I FEEL HAPPY AND FREE AND WANT TO GIVE MY ATTENTION TO OTHER PEOPLE, AND ALSO BE WITH THEM, LIKE I AM WITH YOU."
THAT'S BASICALLY ASYING YOU'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THAT PERSON.
AND IF THAT PERSON IS THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE AND LOVES YOU BACK JUST AS MUCH, THEN THEY WOULD NOT DO THIS.
2007-05-24 11:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by w00t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say so. Boundaries - she needs them.
2007-05-24 11:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋