please please im begging you! answer this?

Question

so there is this guy who helps me with all my problems. now he has a problem and he wants my help. he told me about how his aunt just died today in the morning and how he is really sad. I Dond Know What To Tell Him!!!!! plz help

Answer 1

Theres really nothing you can say to help him feel better..Just be there for him and lend an ear if he needs to talk...Just show him that you care

Answer 2

Well put yourself into his shoes, what would he do for you if a family member died. You can always cheer him up by starting up a conversation that can make him go away from that incident, and make him happy. You could take him out bowling, or to a movie just to get his mind off everything and relize that every thing is going to be ok. You seem to be a really nice person with a great heart, I think you will be the person that will help him the most.

Answer 3

You must be pretty special to him if he wants your company during this time. Just be there for him, listen to him, he probably wants to open up and tell you his feelings about his aunt's passing. Maybe you could bring some food over - homemade or take out, (thats what we do in the South when someone passes away). Mainly, just be there and help him and his family.

Answer 4

Give the poor guy a hug! It sounds like he needs it. Hang out with him longer than you usually would, just for support; tell him how sorry you are, and ask him to tell you about some of the fun times he and his aunt had together, if he feels like it.

Answer 5

Just tell him that you are very sorry for his loss. You should let him do most of the talking and just be a good listener. You could add that his aunt must've been a very sweet woman, tell him that she will always be in his memories. Just say simple nice things. But most of all, be there to listen to him.

Answer 6

Tell him what's in your heart. How sorry you are for his loss. Just be there for him to support him through this difficult time in his life.If he wants to talk, be his sounding board. If he doesn't want to talk, just let him know you are there for him, just he has always been there for you and how important your friendship is to him.

It's always nice to support him and his family during such a sorrowful time by sending them a sympathy card or a Mass card, maybe flowers and maybe even your presence at a viewing and/or funeral may be very much appreciated by him. Ask him if it's alright with him if you attend (if you think you are able to handle it....some people get very anxious and emotional at these services. You know yourself and how much you can handle).

Just be available to him for emotional support. Maybe even take him out to cheer him a bit. Your friendship and support will speak volumes to him!

Answer 7

Wow, that shows ur quality of friendship
HELLO, his aunt just died, he is ur friend, can't a few words come from the heart
u resort to yahoo answers to give u some nice sweet candy *** disney bullshit to say to him, wow, ur not a good friend at all

Answer 8

What do you think you should tell him?

Ask him to dinner, be nice to him. If you think you could have a relationship with him, do it. There's no going back from there.

If he's just an Internet friend ask for his phone number, *69 it and call him and talk. Don't give him your real phone number!

If you do know him in real life, talk to him. Offer to help.

Answer 9

Just ask him if there is anything that you can do for him. Be there for him when he is talking, just listen and be supportive. Why don't you go visit him and sit with him for a bit.

When things like this happen the only thing you can really do is share you heart.

Cheers.

Answer 10

Tell him to write an essay about why his aunt was important to him, what she did for him. Have him send a copy to family members or place it at her funeral. It is normal to feel sad when loved ones die.