There's this girl i really like. When she liked me, I asked her out, but she said no. Now she won't even talk to me. Can someone explain why this is and how i can be her friend again?
2007-05-24 10:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by Charles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe you thought that she like you when really she didn't.............or maybe she moved on to another guy....... and if you want to be her friend again.........just tell her that ...... and if she still doesn't want to be your friend....... then just give her some space.........she'll come around sooner or later.............trust me...............
2007-05-24 11:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by kotabear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said no after she already liked you? You're leaving some crucial details out bud.
But anyways. She's unsure of where you guys stand. That's why she's not speaking with you. You said it yourself..."how i can be her friend again?"
Not even you know what you really want with this girl. She's confused, just as you. And she's not going to be responsible for what happens between you two...only what doesn't happen.
Truth is you really can't go back to being 'just friends.' One of you has feelings for the other and the relationship is on another level.
Don't be ashamed of asking her out or liking her. If she's embarrassed or upset with you, leave yourself open for talking.
Don't push this any more though. When she's ready, she'll come to you.
2007-05-24 18:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by MattVaill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry sounds right, people get confused about emotions and love. Be nice, be patient, give her attention but don't stalk.
as long as you have not been flirting or dating someone else she knows.. Find out if you messed up some other way.
Remember be nice, don't fight,......keep calm no shouting.
you could try being a friend, before trying to make her a girlfriend. Sorry no quick fix, everyone is different.
good luck
2007-05-24 18:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she might think things are really wierd between the two of you since she rejected you. Just go and start talking to her and ask her why she is ignoring you. If she still continues to ignore you, then you may not have a chance. If she doesn't want to talk to you, then she just won't talk to you. You can't force friendship on her. Good luck.
2007-05-24 18:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably uncomfortable and when you try to talk to her, she may assume that you're trying to change her mind.
If you honestly just want to be her friend, tell her. Say something like, "I know I liked you before, but I would have never asked you out if I knew we couldn't be friends because of it."
If she's a true friend, she'll warm up to you but it might take a while.
2007-05-24 18:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by VistaCove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be her friend again. She's freaked out that her friend asked her out and she doesn't know how to deal with it.
Make some new friends, especially a girlfriend. When she sees you being social with other people she'll probably feel less weird and start to relax around you again.
2007-05-24 18:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by gopher_baroque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird that she wont even talk to you at all anymore. Sounds a lil crazy, you may have dodged a bullet. I say you leave it alone, no sense in chasing a girl that doesn't want to be chased. You'll find someone else...
2007-05-24 18:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by FeeFi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she said no and now shes not talking to u i think shes a flirt and u got her at her game but if u were frenz and now she don't want to talk to u i think u should avoid her there are more fishes in the sea u just don't see them yet she'll come around once she sees ur ignoring her
2007-05-24 18:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Big MACK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this was a misconception. You can probably still be friends as long as you don't pull another stunt like that again.
2007-05-24 18:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by GT-R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think she liked you as a b/f, she only liked you as a friend and you scared her off. Give her time and just stick to being friends, maybe it'll grow from there. good luck!!
2007-05-24 18:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably considered you a friend and not a boyfriend. it must have been a surprise to her and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying she doesn;t like you.. do you think you can both forget it ever happened or should you express your feelings an see what comes next....
2007-05-24 18:09:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋