i really wana know why guys are shy cant you notice when a girl likes you? and i cant make the first move!!
2007-05-24 10:18:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The body language is all there. People do these motions without realising it. When a girl twirls her hair and touches your arm and laughs at your jokes, then she likes you. When she is looking down with her arms crossed and is frowning, then it is time to get the hell out.
2007-05-24 10:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are they aren't shy they just need a Rosetta stone to interperate the subtle hints girl put out in the world. Women tend to assume a guy should know when they like them but really guys don't spend hours thinking about the secret moves of women. You have to make it obvious for him. Try talking to him at first and see how it goes.
2007-05-24 10:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are really flirty, so guys think that the girl treats everyone the way they are treating that one guy. Or if the girl is shy, they may think she's not interested. YOU have to be proactive. Dont wait for him to make the first move. Guys are just as shy/scared as girls are! Ask HIM to grab a pizza, or you be the one to kiss him first! Just pull yourself together and go for it!
2007-05-24 10:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by hey there :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people, not just guys, have a hard time recognizing "signals." It's a brave new world, lady, let your feelings be known. Why should it always be a guy who has to make the first move? P.S. I'm middle-aged. Trust me, some guys don't get any wiser as they get older.
If there is someone you like and you don't want to let him get away, tell him!!!
2007-05-24 10:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell that us shy guys dont know what women are doing because we don't pay attention to all that stuff. Everything that we think of stays in our heads. It isn't ever to come out. We cant make a dang move on any woman because we tend to think about that she would reject me or whatever. We are just a locked vault that isn't meant to be opened.
2007-05-24 10:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by GT-R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys are just insecure. Most of the time, we do notice when a girl likes us but are too surprised to believe it could be true. We find it hard to believe, so to speak.
2007-05-24 10:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they're shy.
I think they're scared.
And you're right not to ask....it's not a good idea. I did it once back in 7th grade (am 26 now), and I got burned so badly that I'll NEVER do it again, so I can't blame you! It also pleases me to know now that the boy who ruthlessly rejected me is now quite FAT... :)
In addition, if I were you, I wouldn't show your "like" for him too much. It might just make him even more scared. Let him...MAKE him come to you.
Dangle the bait & catch the fish, that's how it works!!
2007-05-24 10:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy doesn't then I'm sorry to say your going to have too. Guys can tell if you like them, but if they are worng then they will feel really embarrssed. I know I hate when guys don't make the first move too.
2007-05-24 10:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating around the bush and just tell them. Guys always like the straight forward approach the best. Your just wasting time by dropping hints.
2007-05-24 10:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are shy to ask but if you make a move and tell him then he'll definately know.
2007-05-24 10:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by lunatic3807 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋