Im wondering why it bothers me more that we're long distance then it bothers him? I cant stand it and really want to live with him but he seems like hes ok with it being long distance..why? We're going out about 3 years and knew each other a year before that
2007-05-24 10:15:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand where you are coming from, My husband and I *he was my boyfriend at the time* had a long distant relationship as well, and it KILLED ME! But you know what? Distance makes the heart grow fonder, and you have to be able to trust each other. That's the best advice I can give you. Just focus on your studies,and since you are both in grad school *I am assuming you are getting your master's and not your Phd* then I am guessing it will only be for 2 years.
Just chill out, don't stress, and be there for each other. Once you both graduate, and live in the same city again, you will appreciate that time you spent apart
Good luck to you both!
2007-05-27 15:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by DableST1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um mm,
Sounds like you don't trust your boyfriend or your relationship that much...and if you don't chill with the desperate dame act you are going to be riding solo!
Figure out what your issue is and then maybe you can find some comfort in your current situation.
No guy wants to be strangled in a relationship with a needy girl wrapped all around him, he might be glad about the break from you if you have been a handicap.
Just chill!
2007-05-24 10:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lashadon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi long distance relationships are hard. if you to especially him really love each other then it will work out. my advice to you is really think this through. if you still do write pros and cons and have him do the same. If you to realy love each other you to can meet up somewhere plane or bus and sit and tell each other how you really feel dont hold back any thing. trust me i was in a relationship going bad i did it now we are alive and kicken. although on the down side it may not work just try it. it couldnt hurt just remember keep your head high
2007-05-24 10:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're looking at a closer horizon than he is. He is,maybe, looking toward your future together,but at this point, 'ya gotta do what ya gotta do'.
2007-05-24 10:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to talk negative, so heres the positive......maybe he misses u to high heaven but doesnt want to tell you...possibly he is waiting until he see's u again so he can better EXPRESS himself
2007-05-24 10:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thike you should get married and then no, mater what happens you guys will always be togher.
2007-05-24 10:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by zoe b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is enjoying time more than what you are....
Relax, seriously. If you go paranoid on him, then he will be gone.
2007-05-24 10:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by texaslittleangel75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋