She is like my best freind, but when we talk she says that she can't seem to find the right guy and i think that i would be good
i want to go out w/ her but not in a weird way
2007-05-24 08:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by Josh Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say in a joking way,"Well, what's wrong with me? I'm a good guy." Then see how she takes it. It might make her think about the possibility of you and her together.
2007-05-24 08:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How does she act around you, I mean do you think that there might be something there for her too. If so, then I say definetely go for it. But if you are gonna do it, I say do it right. Girls love it when guys are romantic. And it doesnt take much, considering that you know her like no one else does.
i mean do you have some kind of inside joke or something. You should make it something that only the 2 of you know. i mean if you know that she loves a certain song or something, then incorporate that into the way that you tell her how you feel.
You could write her a letter, or a poem telling her all of the things that you like about her and maybe put her favorite candy in it or something. There is an endless nimber of ways you could do it, but just make sure that it is sweet, becaus eit will show her how much you care about her.
2007-05-24 08:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her telling you she can't find the right guy could be a hint that she's into you. Maybe SHE'S trying to find a way to tell you that she has a crush on you, but doesn't want to freak you out. This is sticky though, since this is your best friend. Next time she says that about the "right guy," maybe you could say something about being the "perfect" guy, and that's what she should be looking for instead! :o)
Good luck.
2007-05-24 08:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy :o) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um...I think you should tell her how you feel because I felt the same toward my best friend but I kept it quiet, then when he moved to Cape Town, he told me he had feelings for me but it was too late and now I know I will never have the love of my life...So just sit her down or write her a letter and tell her how you relly feel because you never know:what if she feels exactly the same way... goodluck!
2007-05-24 08:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off. Are you friends?
Second off. If you go directly to somebody when you've had to do with each like:
dancing a movie
AIM
cell phone/fone conversations
Yes she will freak out. If you start hinting and doing things that only people who like her would do then she'll guess it on her on and you'll be friends till you get the guts to ask her out and then i guess you'll be more.
2007-05-24 08:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you could do something for her in a subtle way, Send her flowers w/ a note, send her a card that wouldn't be a "friendship card" but rather a relationship, take her to dinner & just say that your having feelings for her that goes beyond & above friendship & see how she feels.....good luck!!
2007-05-24 08:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by weezie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come right out and tell her how you feel. How else will she ever know? If she goes for it, cool. If not at least you won't wonder anymore.
2007-05-24 08:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest taking off the Star trek uniform before you tell her.
2007-05-24 08:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by diobalik 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Write her a letter and explain how you feel.
2007-05-24 08:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋