Ok, my friends are dating some really dorky guys. One of them is ok he just gets annoying. The other one is really dumb from what I have seen and my friend seems too good for him. I on the other hand am trying to get the courage to ask someone out but am afraid to. They keep talking about these guys and thats all I hear from them and I am getting pretty tired of it. And when I tell them they go we are happy don't bring us down with your mood. Does it sound like I am being really jealous I can't get that courage and ask him out while they have boyfriends.
2007-05-24 07:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I will give their realtionships either 3 weeks or a month.
2007-05-24 07:39:54 · update #1
No WAY!!! I would never think about a relationship with my friends!! THATS GROSS...because I don't roll like that whoever asked me that...
2007-05-24 07:42:09 · update #2
I know its wrong but they are so annoying they keep instant messaging me about it and it sucks!
2007-05-24 07:45:04 · update #3
But then if I ask this guy out the ywill think I only asked him because I hated being single but I am gonna ask him anyway.
2007-05-24 07:47:14 · update #4
Trust me they are dorky and I didn't tell them that straight to their faces and I didn't tell them that at all. I said way to go and have fun with that...then they were saying don't ruin it for us we r happy...which i am happy for them but I wanna talk to them about other stuff than their lovers.
2007-05-24 07:49:57 · update #5
Yep. You really don't have any right to judge other people's choices when it comes to dating...they aren't you and are attracted to different things. It is incredibly wrong of you to say bad things about them. They could think the guy you like is a total toad you know.
When you finally do get the courage to ask the guy out, if he even accepts, you will be too focused on him, to be bothered with what you think of the guys your friends are dating.
2007-05-24 07:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are jealous of what they have & that they are happy because they talk about it a lot. You love your friends & should be up front with them. Tell them that you are happy that they are happy, but its just hard to hear all the time when you don't have a boyfriend like them. I think you should definitely ask this guy out! You can do it girl, just be confident. The worst thing he can say is no!
And by the way, your friends should be helping you out with this as well, reach out for their advice. Good luck!
2007-05-24 14:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah - jealousy is what you call that. Who is to say who is better or "too good" for someone else. Sure, the guys might seem dorky to you, but we can't all date movie stars. The guys annoy you and you are sick of hearing about them because BOTH of your friends are happy and you don't have the guts to ask someone out. If you want to be with the girls and blab about your man all day, get you one! :)
What's the worst that can happen with asking the guy out? If he says no, ask another guy. If he says yes, you are suddenly in the group and being annoying like the other girls! :)
2007-05-24 14:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not that you are jealous, its that they go on and on and on, its getting really old hearing about it all the time. I dont understand why you cant ask someone out just because your friends are taking? That should make you have the courage to want a better man then them! Go for it, show em what your working wit!
2007-05-24 14:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all they should have some consideration for you and your feelings....I had a friend who talked about her boyfriend all of the time....especially when I was single....It is a normal feeling to be annoyed with them.....I have a boyfriend now and I don't bring him up in a conversation unless someone asks about him...I mean I love him alot but I don't have to prove that to other people...I find it very rude and annoying when you constantly talk about someone....I respect people and what they have to say instead of talking about my bf going blah blah blah woop woop woop woop LOL When you find your man mami throw it in their faces and see if they like it.....Look at it on the bright side for now you can flirt with any guy you want while they deal with their dorky bfs...so cheer up mami don't let their ignorance bring you down!!!
Best wishes mami!!!!
2007-05-24 14:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♡♥Poisonous Strawberry♥♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, your jealous. Here it is your friends are happy and giddy over a bunch of dumb boys and you have nobody to be giddy about. If one of your friends didnt have a boyfriend, she would be on your side and you both would be jealous. Just get over it, you'll find u a good guy in due time.
2007-05-24 14:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm.... no i mean in your opinion if a guys nerdy, hes nerdy.! But it depends on how deep you lay it in. If you reptatively say it. You know "your boyfriends a nerd", your boyfriends a geek" I think is jealous. But i could be wrong. Best of luck on the other guy. Your afraid of rejectIon, and trust me I know the feeling, but just ask him. Or tell him you like him through a note or Myspace.
2007-05-24 14:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are jealous, it sounds like you don't care for your friends' boyfriends. It happens, and it will always happen, trust me. I don't recall having one boyfriend that my closest friends ever REALLY liked. And it also sounds like you need the support of your friends about this boy you like and they are too wrapped up in their own thing to be supportive of you. Let me help you out.... YOU CAN DO IT!! Have confidence in yourself and go ask that boy out! Remember to be supportive of your friends' decisions on who they date because boys come and go, but a strong friendship will last a lifetime!
2007-05-24 14:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by rennie18352 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it sounds like they talk about theyre boyfriends alot which would make anybody annoyed and frusterated if you were jealous youd be likie "how come they already got boyfriends and i dont i want a boyfriend so bad...etc" so no and im sure youll get the sourage up sooner or later everyone is beautiful in a way and im sure your gorgeous.... so good luck
2007-05-24 14:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound to me like ur jealous ur just sick of them talkin about them just ask sumone that u like out and u guys can have a big group date
GoOd LuCk!!!!!!
2007-05-24 14:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by qutie2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋