i am 21 but told that i don't act my age. I don't go around flirting with ever guy I see, i hate shopping, don't like watching vidoes. my grnadmother got mad because I volunteer my time at my church to help fix it up and clean up without getting paid. I don't run the streets and i do house work. well my real problem is what is the normal behavior of a young woman? I mean it seems like most ladies my age that i know act like they are ladies of the night and i don't want to be like that.
greatly appreciate your advice, it brings alot of clarity to my life
2007-05-24 07:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by ezekiel's mom 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i have been known to be a little tom boyish- like playing football and wrestling with others.
2007-05-24 07:24:14 · update #1
Let me get this straight...you are active in your local community, you are clean, responsible, you don't waste your time on trivial pursuits and you think there is possibly something wrong with this?
The important thing is to live your life in a manner that is acceptable and feels right to YOU. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep up the goo work. However, you are young and you should be having some fun. Make sure you enjoy yourself but do so in a manner that you like not what others think you should like.
2007-05-24 07:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mistress Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um,so what's the problem?? Tell would you rather me be a delinquint? And get in trouble have children go to jail and do drugs or do good deeds to help people Im sure she will appreciate u then!lol stay a good kid your fine I wouldn't worry u sound Like a good kid!!!But just make sure no one takes advantage of you by slave driving you! You'll know the difference I hope, and just because its a church, man is not always 100% pure at heart and good.
2007-05-24 14:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great person to me. Why bother wondering about what other people think or do. Just be the best person you can be and don't worry about it. I think you already have a lot of clarity.
2007-05-24 14:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think YOU are just fine. I wouldn't want to be like those silly young girls any ways. Just think. 20 years down the road you will still look young and have a good job. Those others will look old and haggard and have nothing to show for their party lifestyle.
2007-05-24 14:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by punch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre doing well
my best friend in the world was like you and shes now married since 74 Shes a wonderful woman...
2007-05-24 14:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing damn good. Do you have a best friend that has some similarities ? Stay sweet, plenty of time for the other crap.
2007-05-24 17:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be what you are. Do what makes you happy and those that really care about you will be happy as long as what you are doiing is not self destructive.
2007-05-24 14:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows what proper behavoir is? if thats what you enjoy doing then you shouldnt stop doing it because other people dont like it
2007-05-24 14:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by Poh Tay Toe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what everyone else is doing.
Be true to yourself.
2007-05-24 14:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋