How true is this? Is it that girls like going after something more difficult? Seems like when you have a girlfriend, all of a sudden you're flirting more and being flirted with more. Even if they know you have a GF.
2007-05-24 07:19:21 · 12 answers · asked by Diggidy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you notice that the girls in your area compete in sports too.
Get a job selling something that the girls will give you money for so you can make a living supporting you and your sweet heart.
Be careful what you choose though, or you could be the one who gets kicked out of the comfort zone.
2007-05-24 07:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by d4d9er 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhat but not always .. unless you're talking about HS. Most girls that I know of don't flirt with guys that already have a gf .. because it wouldnt be right and besides they are already taken. Though some guys who are REALLY attractive girls just want to be his friend doesnt mean they are trying to steal you away.
2007-05-24 14:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's not just girls. Guys do it too! I used to know a guy who would only call/talk to me when I had a boyfriend. Anytime I was single he stayed as far away from me as he could get and treated me like dirt saying I shouldn't hang out with him so much because it made him look bad to his friends. But the minute I started getting into a serious relationship, my phone would ring off the hook with him asking me if I'd want to hang out. I stopped talking to him not long after I started dating my current boyfriend. We both got sick of his phone calls and text messages at 2 am.
Personally, I wouldn't touch a guy with a 10 foot pole if I knew he was in a relationship. It's extremely disrespectful and it takes a very low and horrible person to do something like that.
2007-05-24 14:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is how I see it.
I usually feel more nervous talking to a single guy than someone who is taken, because with single guy I am always thinking "what if he asks me out? omg what if he says something suggestive..."
i feel a comfort zone talking to a guy who is taken, because I know he will not taken my comments seriously. he will also not try to read between lines. however, sometimes i do get attached to taken guys, but then i cut off!
2007-05-24 14:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that and seen it. It's one of those things women see "what does have that got him into a relationship" kind of thing? And I think it works the opposite way too.
2007-05-24 14:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if you can get a girlfriend, clearly there is something desirable about you. Along with the "hard to get" appeal.
2007-05-24 14:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by jujubeprincess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesnt make you any more appealing it gives us a challenge and sometimes we like the excitement of testing you men.
2007-05-24 14:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it is true not only because it is more difficult but also because they are competing with your girlfriend!!!!!But be carefull because this kind of women feel insecure and just want your confirmation...
2007-05-24 14:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by smaragda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leave guys alone that are taken. I don't dip my hand in anyone elses cookie jar.
2007-05-24 14:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Punk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are just like guys here they like the challenge
2007-05-24 14:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋