I'm confuse, there was a lot of signs that he liked me but I saw him with his new girlfriend, I'm not jelous or anything it just confuses me. My sister was positive that he liked me, it was a shock for the bpth of us. I'm not shure if its a big deal cause I don't feel bad about it. I need counseling.
2007-05-24 06:17:58 · 25 answers · asked by Solenmar24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys naturally flirt with anyone they're attracted to, whether or not they're tied down in a relationship. It's part of male instinct, face it.
Just because he's going out with her doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. And odds are, if he's flirting with other people, he's not that crazy about her anyway. So it's not a matter of like or love, it's a matter of attraction. You can make him like you, just get to know him better; then, you'll end up having some experience, who knows when or how, and things will change from there.
2007-05-24 06:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you dont need counseling. Im going through a similar situation here. You just got to think about all the *signs* he was giving you. You also got to take into consideration how long they have been dating. Maybe he was waiting for you. Then got tired and found somone else. There is one other thing you have to consider. He is a player. He could like you and the other girl at the same time. He could have 2 or 3 girlfriends for all you know. Im not trying to sound mean, but these are some possibilities. If I made you feel bad, im truly sorry.
2007-05-24 06:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he did LIKE YOU! Sometimes people just like to have crushes and flirt even when they're in a committed relationship just because of how it makes them feel! Sadly, he probably did like you but he's going to be true to his girlfriend. You shouldn't waste your time because if he does cheat on his girlfriend with you and you guys get into a relationship. what's to say he isn't going to cheat on YOU? Sorry honey, but I would say move on. He isn't worth the tears. Also, the best way to get over a boy is to find another. Go out and meet people, flirt with boys at your school, soon enough you'll start liking someone else and you'll be able to move on. It's hurtful, but be glad that you didn't waste your time and emotions further.
good luck!
2007-05-24 06:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So here it is, guy's have a girl but they just want to know if they can get more, of course they won't leave them for you but it's in the testosterone or jeans, guy's are not generally loyal at a really young age. Latch on to the arm of a good lookin guy and march right past him, two can play that game!
2007-05-24 06:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you need counseling you should go. Its hard to say what happened with this guy. He might still like you even though he has a girlfriend. This sounds like a bad situation so leave it alone and try dating single people.
2007-05-24 06:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a gf does not mean "all doors are closed". They are more like windows. You are inside but can see out to the rest of the world. Sure you have a box of delicious mint ice cream in the freezer, but if the ice cream truck comes by and the have that sweet juicy strawberry frozen treat... mmmm... we will open that window and jump out.
Are you that juicy frozen treat? Maybe....
2007-05-24 06:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by Shane O'Rion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy is just fliratious by nature and was giving you the wrong signals. OR he really did like you, but the girl asked him out first and he just jumped to the one that showed the most interest?
If you aren't jealous or upset, then you didn't really like him all that much anyway. So, it's good that he has a girl... now you can find another guy! :)
2007-05-24 06:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
{ Are you sure it was a girlfriend? Not a sister/cousin? If there was a PDA, you're probably right, so..... }
'Liking' and 'dating' are not the same thing. Sounds to me like this guy was scouting, whether he had a girlfriend or not.
I'm glad you don't feel bad about it, because he sounds hmmm, let's see, 'fickle' is a nice clean word for it!
2007-05-24 06:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is one of the guys, He might have liked you a little bit. but his new girl came around and he liked her instantly.
Or he might be the guy that is nice, and wasnt trying to show signs that he liked you and just wanted to be friends.
Or he might be a player.
I would move on. There is no reason for you to feel bad about this. there is somebody out there for you. You will find him. just let time take its course.
2007-05-24 06:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by tdude09 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a player. You got involved in his game. Now, its game over. Honey, move on. There are better man out there. This should make you stronger not confused!
2007-05-24 07:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋