If you were rejected like that every day, do you think you would you become shy about approaching guys?
2007-05-24 05:52:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I would, but the same thing happens to men. Unless the man is lucky or skilled, he might expect to be rejected 90% of the time. And unlike women, we are EXPECTED to make the approach. Don't you think that would make us shy and stressed out sometimes? If we gave up after being rejected a couple of times, hardly anyone would get hooked up! Have a nice day!
2007-05-24 05:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one, man or woman has been rejected or will be rejected while approaching the opposite sex at some point and time.As for someone becomming more shy after the fact..it depends on how different people deal with rejection. it might slow some people down because afterall it's a blow to your ego, so i guess a girl could be more shy about approaching guys. Does ne1 get rejected everyday??if someone gets rejected everyday...it's going to have somekind of effect on a person and shyness might be a result.It's not something anyone should take too much to heart..so dont become shy just because some1 doesnt like u.
2007-05-24 06:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by mon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the majority of the time that I approached men or otherwise made the first move, I've been rejected. Some of these men showed interest up until I made that first move. I don't know if they don't like confident women or if they feel emasculated, or what the deal was. But whenever I refrained from approaching men, they always come to me. I don't approach men anymore.
2016-04-01 06:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never approached a guy i think that's the mans job to come and approach us i mean we go through enough anyway they should at least be obligated to deal with rejection and besides its not half as bad as most of the things we go through.
2007-05-24 05:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has been rejected before, and it's hard to approach someone after that, but you just have to deal with. If it happened every day, though...I would probably move into my closet, get really fat and never go out in public.
2007-05-24 06:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by Trisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya. It takes a lot of confidence to approach some stranger! If someone were to get rejected every single time, it would probably bring their self esteem down (especially girls) and probably wouldn't want to do it anymore!
2007-05-24 05:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Ray Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none that i can remember. and yes i think if i was being rejected day after day i would become very shy. and i would also be questioning myself, like what am i doing wrong? but maybe im not doing anything wrong, maybe its them, ya know?
2007-05-24 05:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by million$? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd give up if it was like that every day.
one time i saw this gorgeous guy i had a HUGE crush on in high school working at a resturaunt as a cook when we were in college. he was in love with me but was too scared and shy to say anything, i gave him my number and when i came back a month later his friends gave me his number and i called and turns out he was too shy to make a move! his loss!!!
2007-05-24 05:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it happened all the time yes. but if it happened once not really. Or maybe i would reconsider the way i am approaching people because that can be a problem as well
2007-05-24 05:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop trying to approach guys and wait for one to approach you
2007-05-24 05:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by College Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋