she wont allow me to have sex with her hoe can i find out does it bleed for first time or else is there any other way to find out if shes a virgin or not?
2007-05-24 05:51:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, generally it will probably only bleed on the first time if she is really young. The bleeding is caused when the hymen is torn the first time she has sex, this is what they always used to check in the old days to determine if a girl was still a virgin. However, as a girl gets older the hymen thins. Also if she ever used tampons for her period, that would tend to break the hymen as well. So the bleeding thing will probably not be a good indication. The best way to find out is to ask her. If you are in an honest relationship she will tell you. However, in the grand scheme of things, unless you suspect that she is cheating on you, what difference does it make?
Bob
2007-05-24 05:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonlair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your gf says she is a virgin why would you question her? You have to have trust in her, would she have a reason to lie about this to you? And no not all women bleed the first time they have intercourse. When the time does come, You will know if she truley is a virgin just by the way she responds to it. It is painful the first time whether there is blood or not.Be gentle with her and just believe and trust her.
2007-05-24 06:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by RdWazoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. Some girls are active in sports. So, their hymen gets torn thru these physical, regular activities. Which means, even if they do it for the 1st time, they wl not bleed and most wl not feel any tearing pain. There is really no other way to tell unless you bring her to the doctor for a check up.
2007-05-24 05:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way but her word.
I did not bleed the first time I had sex, and I know other girls who didn't as well.
Some say you can base knowing on if it hurts her or not the first time you two have sex, but this is also incorrect as each woman's body is different.
Good luck with that!
2007-05-24 05:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Straight Shooter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all depends. everybody is different. some girls do bleed...some don't. My advice....JUST ASK HER. If she is not letting u do anything..obviously...she wants her first time to special and with the right person. The timing may not b right for her just yet. B patient and hang in there. Try not to be such a horn dog. If she is worth it...u will wait.
2007-05-24 06:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by willow8975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah here's the thing, it may be unconventional but you should.....Ask her. I mean really, where's the trust? & you dont' necessarily bleed the 1st time so if she doesn't that doesn't mean she's been around the block. From the question you sound too young to have sex, give it some time do some growing up....
2007-05-24 05:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by FeeFi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..........you could ask her. And if she won't let you have sex with her...you aren't going to know if she bleeds or not!!! Besides, some virgins do, some dont. Just depends.
2007-05-24 05:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ray Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have got to take her at her word. Because if you're not a Dr doing an exam, the only other way would be to have sex and she's not letting you do that so stop worrying and take her word for it...
2007-05-24 05:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that any concern of yours? If she won't let you have sex with her what possible difference does it make to you? There are ways to tell but they only apply to SOME women SOME of the time.
2007-05-24 05:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will tell you. There's no other way to know unless you are an ob/gyn. Not everyone bleeds the first time, not everyone hurts the first time.
2007-05-24 05:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋