Ladies, even if you are in a good relationship, do you still like- or even seek out- attention from other men?

Question

If "no", no need to respond.

If "so", why?

Answer 1

I don't seek it, but if a guy looks at me frm across the train platform in admiration, I'd feel good. I mean, especially when you are in a relationship for a long time, you just don't know what other men thinks of you anymore. Ok, now I ask the guys- If you are in a good relationship, why do you still luv to look at other pretty girls?

Answer 2

Even when in a good relationship, I enjoy getting attention from other men. It's nice to know that I am still attractive. However, I wouldn't seek out that kind of attention if I were in a good relationship.

Answer 3

Sure, I appreciate attention from other men. Who wouldn't like attention. But the only attention I seek out from other men are my friends. It's ok. My boyfriend knows I'm a flirt who means nothing by it. That's how our friendship started. Also, he's the same way with other women. He doesn't mean anything by it either. He's just having fun. So I don't mind at all.

Answer 4

If I am dating someone and really care for them, then, no, I'm not seeking out attention. I do however, have some guy friends, and they are strickly friends and I never look at them in the romantic sense. I would like to comment though that a ton of people out there are insecure and need to feel loved and wanted by others in order to feel good about themselves.
In a way, its some sort of self-therapy that they do in order to feel better about their insecurities. There are reasons for all behaviors.

Answer 5

I must admit I like attention from other men. I think most women do. Why? Because it makes us feel desirable. Something women have been groomed to want since the beginning of time. To want the attention doesn't mean we want anything more than an ego trip though. Just harmless flirtations. As long as it's not brazen or doesn't hurt someone else's partner.

Answer 6

Most women not only love attention - we need it!

I don't know that I would say we 'seek out' attention from other men, because there is a fine line there that, when crossed, goes to the realm of cheating.

But women that take care of their looks are, whether consciously or not, seeking attention from other men.

Answer 7

It's healthy to be in serious relationship and "flirt". I have been with my boyfriend for years and we both will go out and if the waiter flirts with one of us we use it to our advantage, but we also don't mind when we go out separately that I flirt or he does. It's healthy to do that and as long as your intentions are good and you don't act on anything and know how to say no or quit then you are OK. I don't necessarily "seek" attention but if I know someone is flirting with me I will do it back- but I am never the one to go up and hit on someone while in my relationship. My boyfriend does the same thing and we are comfortable and know we are rock solid in our relationship to worry about those things.

Answer 8

I think we all like to have attention from men, even if we're attached. Accepting a man's advances if attached would be crossing a line, imo. But there's nothing wrong with harmless flirting.

Answer 9

I don't seek the attention out however, when I receive it, it does give me a good feeling.

It's nice to know that other men still find me attractive.

Answer 10

i think that would be depend on how your relationship is working.if ur man is not giving u enough time,of course you can't blame yourself sometimes to seek some attention from other men. i think it's ok sometimes but don't let your mind and heart fool you because if you do,you will loose him or whatsoever. so be careful on everything you do. if ur not happy with your man, tell him so u can move on with your life and be happy with somebody who really deserves you.