a hermaphrodite, can i still have sex with him without being gay or going to hell? when we are making love his "girl" parts will be touching me, is this ok?
2007-05-24 05:28:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
jenn- unfortunately i didn't have to think very hard to come up with this question. as for my kids, they all have regular parts, thanks
2007-05-24 07:14:34 · update #1
MARRY ME!
sorry gut reaction I was impressed by how disturbed this question is.
2007-05-24 05:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
You know what? That is a very good question, I never thought about it before. If the person was born that way there is not a whole lot anyone can do about it (unless your rich).
First of all he/she really should tell you before you get married and if you are both Christians you might want to pray about it until you come to peace that you are either ok with it or not.
I do know that some people are born that way so it is not a question of (can some one really be born that way).
Yea, after taking a break here and praying about it, I feel at peace saying this...
1. He/she should not keep it a secret from the fiancee
2. Pray, talk what ever until you come to peace with ok or not ok.
From there it is between you, your fiancee and God.
2007-05-24 12:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rev R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't wait to read the responses to this.
However--and I'm not really being religious here--in this situation, I would think your husband was wrong to not tell you about this until you married. That's the kind of thing you really need and want to know before marriage, or having sex outside it, for that matter. An intersexed person wouldn't turn me off, but that kind of lie by omission would, tremendously.
2007-05-24 12:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he should have told you, but you love not because of what he is but because of who he is. So it shouldn't matter, the maker made him this way so what is wrong about that.
2007-05-24 12:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by burnished_dragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U really had to think very hard to come up with this question didn't you... God help that you don't have any children born like that...
2007-05-24 12:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by je 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You would be lucky, two for the price of one!
2007-05-24 12:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
all the best
2007-05-24 12:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by bobojimmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋