2007-05-24 05:23:31 · 33 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It feels GREAT... absolutely FANTASTIC! It doesn't hurt a bit and you will have MULTIPLE ORGASMS for sure! You will pass out from the excitement and JOY!
Make sure you try ALL the positions...
And you will feel so GOOD about yourself afterwards!
The guy will be your BEST FRIEND and LOVER forever! He REALLY cares about you!
Disclaimer: The above is a load of bull designed to show you how immature and silly you are being.
2007-05-24 05:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kia A 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You do realize that this is a crime in most states, right? Even if the boy is your age and you parents find out and freak out and turn him in, he could be labeled a sex offender for life and not ever be able to hold a decent job.
Also, dont post the same question so many times hoping enough people will say "sure, go for it" - because it IS a bad idea. I am 21 (engaged and living on my own - about to go to med school), but I am the size of a 13 yr. old and YES it will hurt unless you do it frequently because chances are you are too small and you have to be stretched. If you stop doing it you will eventually go back to your original size and you have to start all over again and it is uncomfortable. If you dont know the answers to the questions you are asking, you are TOOOOOOO young to think about it!
I really wish your mom could see this.
2007-05-24 10:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Codi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you won't find out for a few more years....a 13 yr old isn't ready for all the potential repercussions....
Sex not occur before:
1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur
2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur
3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur)
4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them
5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom (female) or insist that you wear one (male)
6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly (female) or ensure that she is (male)
7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person
Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex...and yes, the first time is quite often uncomfortable (or painful) and unsatisfying.
2007-05-24 05:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, look here any thirteen year old who has sex is a whore.They look like little kids, and for them yes it will hurt because they dont even know how it feels to get heated up beforehand.I dont know you ,but im pretty sure you dont want to be known as ,the kid who got knocked up before graduating elementry.Wait a few more years. the best thing is to wait till marriage that ensures you a HEALTHY sex life. You do what you want it is your decision just know how stupid it is and all the risks. Im 16 and i still havnet had sex yes I have come close but no ,no sex yet, and you know what im very glad too. I have 3 friends right now who are knocked up.So think this through and enjoy your youth because is will go sooner than you think.
2007-05-24 05:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 years old and asking if sex hurts? Will let me tell you ,yes it hurts the first few times in more ways than one especially if you are 13. "Please do not try this at home." Sex at a very young age is not exactly what one needs,it brings about consequences that you will not be able to handle.I knew someone that had a daughter,she was 12 years old had a baby,little girl,at first she thought how cute. Then she found out it was a lot of work.....Diapers,taking care of her,crying...both of them at times....Now the girl is in her twenties she never had another child. You are asking what happened to the childs father, was 15 at the time where is he well guess??????? Could one get child support money out of a 15 year old? One has it hard enough getting it out of a grown animal.......
2007-05-24 05:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by God is love. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly hope and pray that you are not considering having sex at your age. The hurt you could experience from sex at your age could be: unwanted pregnancy, a disease contracted from the person you have sex with, not to mention the loss of your own self respect. Such harmful effects would follow you for a lifetime. Young lady, people nowadays have sex, just to have sex. As if it were a status symbol. I'd like to encourage you to save yourself for the man that you will marry some day in the future. I promise, it will be well worth your wait. Be young, have fun. We are only young once in our lifetime. But don't give away your self respect and your body to some boy who really doesn't know what love is all about. I hope my message has reached your heart.
2007-05-24 05:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by clabou81 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a father of a 13 yr old daughter, I will tell you what my kids tell other kids your age.. You should not be considering sex until you are out of college and married.
Then you can worry about it.
Finish school, pre-teen and teen sex leads to pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases.
I don't want my tax money going to pay for you to
A. Have an abortion
or
B. bring a child into this world you cannot afford.
Don't do it. Don't think about it until you are old enough to understand the responsibility of raising a child.
Yes, it hurts at your age. it is the most painful thing you can imagine.:-( it is painful for parents to see their child having a child..) a women in labor is a 15 in a pain scale of 1-10.
don't consider the minute of sex, consider the life time of pain and suffering you will cause yourself.
Think about your future and what you want your life to be, set goals. Stay in school, go to college, then think about marriage and children. Don't think about it until you are at least 24 and done with college.
2007-05-24 07:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to even think about that. If some guy is trying to pressure you or you feel you need to to get/keep a guy than you have big self esteem issues that you need to resolve first. You will only make yourself feel worse if you have sex at your age. Hmmm so you want to be a mom at 14? That will hurt. Whatever lie you've been told that you won't get pregnant, don't believe it. Condoms break. My wife and I wanted to wait on children so we used condoms, it broke ONCE!!! and my son was born 9 months later. Birth control pills aren't even 100% and won't keep you from getting an STD. Guys will tell you what you want to hear, don't believe him. So having sex at 13 will hurt you far more than physically
2007-05-24 05:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by his.grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for the boy.
Wait until you are a bit older to start having sex though. 13 really is too young.
2007-05-24 05:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. But even more painful would be the thought that you gave away your virginity to someone you didn't really love or who didn't really love you. At 13, I'd suggest you wait quite a while before you make a decision like this, once it's gone it'll never be back and it really is a special event.
2007-05-24 05:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.L.A. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your to young to have sex my daughter is 13 and her friend who is the same age just had a baby it is screwing up her life it not worth the boy not worth it don't do it you will regret it even if you don't get pregnant you will regret trust me. There to many STD's out there to be playing around talk to your mom or any adult that you can trust before you mess your life up.
2007-05-24 05:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by girl confussed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋