2007-05-24 05:01:56 · 30 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once your virginity is gone its gone for good, unless you decide to abstain from having sex...Honestly, you should save yourself...I cant tell you when I lost mines, but believe you me I wish I had waited.
You might want to have this discussion with your mother or father or both
2007-05-24 05:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first off I think you are way to young. I can look back now and wish I had waited until later in life. If you think you have drama now you have not seen anything yet. Plus you have to worry about STD's and pregnancy. Not to mention the fact that the chances you will be with this guy forever is very, very slim. I was 15 and you think OK if things don't work out I wont do it again but it just will not going to happen that way. I'm 30 now and to you that is ancient but I can tell you from experience not a day goes buy that I wish I could go back and give that special gift to my husband. This is something you really need to put some serious thought into. If you feel pressure from a guy then he is not worth the trouble. And who cares if you are the only one in your group of friends that is still a virgin. Stand up for something and do the right thing.
2007-05-24 12:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie - don't lose your virginity at 13!! You have so many incredible experiences ahead of you - why rush one of the most important. Let me tell you - once you go there, you can't take that back. There are some decisions you make in this life that you just can't take back. And believe me, if you do this, there will come a time....later down the road, that you will really wished you had waited. Sex is the most vulnerable you will make yourself with a man. So, ask yourself....do you really want to give such a sacred part of yourself to someone who isn't your one true love? Goodluck honey. I hope you decide to wait. Think about it. Ask yourself these questions:
*What do I know about birth control? Do I know how to put on a condom?
*Am I mature enough to talk openly with the guy about STDs and birth control?
*Do I know if he has an STD?
*Am I ready to accept an accidental pregnancy or the thought of having an abortion?!
2007-05-24 12:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Firstly. only you can decide the answer to this question.
secondly, i lost my virginity at 15. and i don't regret it ill admit that. but before you do it i think you should see how ready you are.Go to a chemist or a supermarket and buy a pack of condoms. (don't go to a dispenser, that's too easy.) but if you can do that then you probably are ready for it.
but ginving you have asked this question i would say wait a while you are still really young.
+ Have you asked your friends/family or a cousin your own age?
2007-05-24 12:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he?
I was 15 when I lost mine & I have no regrets 'cause I thought about it & it's not something I'm doing with just anyone or to prove anything to others.
It's a bit young at 13 but maybe it's just what I think.
It's not all good either 'cause having sex at 12/13 or younger when you're not all grown & developed (if you know what I mean) could mean something could go wrong. There was something about girls at 12 having sex & they couldn't have kids of something 'cause of it. No idea but I wouldn't think it was good anyway.
Anywho if you love him & you're sure he loves you & it's not some crap guys do then I don't see nothing wrong with it but just be careful 'cause some guys are like that & any girl is worth more than just meaningless sex.
It should be special! =]
2007-05-24 12:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by cottoncandybabe_xx 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I lost mine at 16 year old. I don't regret it. 13 is way tooo young. If you asking on the internet then your not ready yet! You will just know when you are.........it will just happen. Right now you should be enjoying yourself. This is when you can have the most fun.......with your friends. Besides you dont want to be girl everyone else thinks is a slut.......and no one will want to date you for real but only get into your pants!!
2007-05-24 12:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you arent going to like that i say this but you are so young, why are you thinking about it?? please find some other ways to feel special or loved, because sex isnt going to do it for you. You will feel so lonely afterwards. I did it a 17 and it was with a nice guy but i still regret it and i am 31 now
2007-05-24 12:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by debbie v 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You are way too young. Your body is not ready for sex and your mind is not ready for sex. The younger that you have sex the higher your risk for cervical cancer later in life. Please do not do this yet. If you are not ready to have a baby, you should not do this. You can never count on protection 100% of the time. Please do not think about this for a long time. You will regret it. If your boyfriend is pressuring you, dump him!!
2007-05-24 12:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by Colette B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can wait masturbate, there is no reason for a 13 yr to be having sex. With it you open up a whole world of STD, pregnancy, and being labeled a slut. Wait, as long as you can, then wait even longer, it is not a decision to be taken so lightly
2007-05-24 12:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way way way too young for sex. Enjoy your youth while you can and don't rush to grow up. Sex at a young age does not make you more mature it actually shows how young you are. I was 16 and I regret that it happened so early.
2007-05-24 12:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋