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between a married couple? if so, what and why?

(please don't be graphic since there are kids in here)

2007-05-24 04:44:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

YGL - i don't understand, elaborate

2007-05-24 04:50:04 · update #1

thanks heron. if it wasn't for this darn hangover, i would have seen my error. i meant homosexual sex.

2007-05-24 04:58:46 · update #2

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I assume you are asking from a Biblical point of view. As far as I know (and I've read the whole Bible) there isn't much there about what is acceptable and what is not. There are a few guidelines, such as:

Do not have sex during menstruation. In the Bible times, and in Judaism to this day, a woman goes to a mikvah (ritual bath) after her menstruation in order to purify herself, before she can engage in sex again.

Do not think about anyone but your spouse. You wouldn't want to commit adultery in your heart, so be sure you are thinking of each other.

Other than this, it's hard to be specific. I think in some places, it just says not to practice sexual immorality, without elaborating. I would say if you are feeling worried about a particular act, then to not do it. Pray about it and I would say as long as it's safe, and you do not feel in your heart that it's immoral, then it's ok.

EDIT:
What YGL means is that homosexuality is just a condition of being attracted to the same sex. The word by itself does not imply any sex act. One can be a celibate homosexual. I think he was just pointing that out.

2007-05-24 04:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Heron By The Sea 7 · 4 0

I wish everybody could understand that God is pro everything that is natural and good, and that doesn't hurt other people, neither physically nor emotionally. He created us and made us wonderfully complicated. Every aspect of the human body is a miracle far above the understanding of the human mind. As long as we follow that which is natural it will be according to the will of our Creator. I don't hesitate to say that oral sex (69) is not according to will of God. It is not natural. It means using things for what they were not constructed, not to mention anal sex that goes even farther away from what is natural and biologically sound. This part of the body was solely constructed for other purposes and functions so wonderfully for its natural purpose that it undeniably supports the idea of intelligent design. Wouldn't it be a sacrilege to trample it down on the altar of lust? Unnatural acts like these mentioned may cause infections or other more physical damages. Follow the voice of nature and of reason and you will be more than satisfied.
Masturbation is another misuse of these wonderful powers that are hidden within the human body. Anybody that goes through the puberty years daily masturbating will suffer the consequences. Why, simply because it will cause a devastating loss of essential minerals. With just one come a man looses as much zinc as the body can absorb in 24 hours. It goes without saying that this cannot be natural and in its efforts to compensate for the loss the body struggles against the odds. Please let us follow the way of nature, so clearly pointed out in our bodies.

2007-05-24 05:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by kind 2 · 0 0

While I believe that the marriage bed is undefilable, and the word says to not withhold yourself from your spouse except for times of mutual prayer... I believe that God doesn't approve of sex that is harmful or degrading to your partner.

The sex act is a renewal of covenant between a man and wife, it is the gift that God gave us to be so intimate with one person and become in part that person. Two flesh become one.. That is spirit , soul , and body. So I believe that anything that would harm someone on any of those levels, wouldn't be in favor of God, and not honoring your spouse..

hope this helps, and answers what you wanted...vicki

2007-05-24 04:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by 2ndchhapteracts 5 · 2 0

You might consider when Onan 'spilled his seed on the ground' as wrong. Although perhaps this was a personal directive not meant to apply to everyone.

But then again as a married couple that would be pretty pointless and unfulfilling anyway.

'tasty' - you have crossed the line from being objectional into deliberate corruption of minors. I have contacted yahoo and am currently on hold with interpol.

2007-05-24 04:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 3 0

helpful the bible does say that marriage between a women persons and a guy is a real courting and that's how relationships might desire to be, as in: Genesis 2:22-24 Then our lord god made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the guy, and he introduced her to the guy. the guy pronounced, "it extremely is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she would be talked approximately as 'woman, ' for she replaced into taken out of guy." subsequently a guy will pass away his parents and be united to his spouse, and that they are going to grow to be one flesh. whether, god loves all and sundry and he can not no longer love you because of the fact your bi no longer through determination! GOD LOVES YOU no count WHA! Oh ya and Alexis you in no way examine the bible did you??? do no longer decide b4 u certainly examine it! IHave relaxing with the devil! god nonetheless loves you even tho you have not got self assurance he's real...

2016-11-05 06:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by dewulf 4 · 0 0

Did god come to you and tell you that he does not approve of homosexuality? Worry about what makes you happy and not what guilt society teaches you about sex. Enjoy and be safe!(PS) if you masturbate you will grow hair on the palms of your hands!! Ha Ha

2007-05-24 04:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Thats a good question. Fom my understanding of the Bible. Homosexuality is wrong as well as sex with animals. ANything between 2 married people is okay. No threesomes etc

2007-05-24 04:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 2

I would guess that any sex act conducted outside of marriage, adultery, fornication etc are not on His approved list.

Lifestyle choices such as S&M, B&D etc are more about power than sex.

I don't think that He is real big on anal intercourse, beastiality or nonhuman fetishes either.

2007-05-24 05:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by John 1:1 4 · 1 0

I believe there's a passage that says, "thou that dost do a rusty trombone on the Lord's day, shall spend an eternity in hell. Otherwise, have your horny selves a party and don't forget to bring the lube."

2007-05-25 04:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by flash7455 2 · 0 0

It's not true that God "does not approve" of homosexuality. If that's true, then God also wants you to stone your child to death if he's disobedient, and God also thinks it's ok to sell your child into slavery and God also thinks it's ok for men to keep concubines. Need more? Any other caveman laws you think we should be following?

2007-05-24 04:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron 3 · 5 0

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