My boyfriend (my true love) is moving to Arkansas w/ his parents to go to law school. (his father has connections and got him into that university.
But I live in Wisconsin and I really want to be with him. My family doesn't like him and it would crush them to see me go to Arkansas..they would probably shun me. I am guessing he will be there for a good 6 years...I love him so much and I want to be with him...what should i do!????
2007-05-24 04:29:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe your father got him into the university so he would be further away from you. wait and see...you never know what will happen in the future. i will tell you that what you want at 20 isnt usually what you want at 30 so just roll with it. if he is in fact, your true love, it will all work out.
good luck
2007-05-24 04:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by chantel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 06:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by dewulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this really sucks. Well to be honest most high school relationships don't work. But something i can say is that you have to be strong and if you really love him you are going to have to be patient because true love takes time. Maybe withing a year or two you two will be together. Only time will tell.
Wish you the best!
2007-05-24 04:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this a thousand times. You are worried about losing him.
Well, I've seen women chase after men and seen it work out; but I've also seen women chase after men and seen it not work out. Usually it doesn't work out if the man is a momma's or daddy's boy (as it seems in this case). So I advise NOT chasing after him.
Continue the relationship via email, internet IM, and the occassional visit (do not spend thousands on plane tickets visiting him every weekend). Express your love, but maintain some respect for yourself. Focus on your life's goals. Become someone who can fend off your family's and his family's negative opinions.
If they guy loved you enough and you two are strong enough, you two can sail easily through this trial, get married, and live happily ever. And that is what this is...a trial of love.
However, please know that the odds are not good.
2007-05-24 04:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by lazlo_dei 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear friend!
am so sorry about ur situation, I been in ur place, n i know what u feel like!
U know I had to break up with my guy after 2 moths of a long distance relationship because it did not work as we wanted it to, i start meeting new people, he starts getting new "friends"
so he cheats on me with one of his "Friends"
I think that u need to sit down n talk to him!
or if u love him so much, well go with him!
=]
Good luck
2007-05-24 04:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are . . . . Also, I don't think your family would shun you. Just make sure they aren't seeing something about him that you don't see . . . in my experience, family can find problems with people one is seeing long before that person can. Have a nice day!
2007-05-24 04:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can somewhat relate to this, my (x)gf and i are on a break, bcuz she still loves her ex, who is in the marines. she cant decide if she wants a long distance relationship or not. its truely up to you. when her boyfriend had gone off to bootcamp, they were fine for about 2.5 months, and she started feeling lonely, and got attached to me. but that was just when they could write notes back and forth, but now they can talk on the phone. her mom hates him, and doesnt know they still talk. it all depends if u can make it work.
2007-05-24 04:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by helpful and helpless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him?
You only find true love once?
Maybe more if your lucky?
If your parents love you, your happiness will mean they are happy?
2007-05-24 04:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably follow my love and try to explain it to my parents...this also depends on how old you are.
2007-05-24 04:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a lot of phone sex....just push through it, it was really hard when I left my true love to go to school, we had our downs, but we're pushing through.
2007-05-24 04:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Sweet Turtle Luver~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋