I am having a fling w/ my ex.bf who as my first real bf and the only guy i have ever been with.We only have sex once or twice a month when i get a bad drive for sex.Anyway the last time we had sex he did not have a condom on him but since we trust each other we had sex w/ out it.Is it true my fling is not going to want to use a condom anymore most likley?
2007-05-24 04:27:34 · 17 answers · asked by Nancy P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably but you should ask him. I would demand he wear one though. what if you get pregnant or a STD?!
why dont you 2 just date?
2007-05-24 04:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that if you have sex without a condom it's supposed to feel better. As for the next time you decide to have sex, if he was more satisfied without a condom, he might suggest doing that again. Every guy is different and every girl is different. When it comes to pleasure, he may not want to use a condom again, but to protect yourself from HIV, AIDS, or getting pregnant, I would recommend still using a condom just to protect yourself, and him as well. But only you can make the decision if you want to use a condom or not. If he pressures you into not using one, and you want to, it's not worth it to keep sleeping with him.
2007-05-24 04:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well using a condom takes away allot of the feeling. It is more enjoyable to not use one. however the obvious applys. Unless you are on birth controll you most likely will be pregnant. And as far as std's well you be the judge. He might have been your only one, but what about him. are you the only one he has been with for sure?
And it is not up to him, you are the woman, if you want have sex with out a condom then...
2007-05-24 04:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by lyd285 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe and most likely. It just feels better. But any sex even before he cums with out a condom means sooner or later you will get pregnant. Do you know how the burger king got the dairy queen pregnant he forgot to wrap his whopper.
So tell him to wrap it or no sex. Especially since he is dating someone else. If you get pregnant what then.
2007-05-24 04:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the guy has given you a 100% honest history of his sex life make him wear a condom.
2007-05-24 04:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be up to him but most men prefer not to as a condom reduces their sensations somewhat. Even though you trust each other have you thought of pregnancy? Good luck and God Bless.
2007-05-24 04:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably. for guys, all we feel is the inside latex, which doesnt feel 1/100th as good as the inside of you (lol). im sure you can say the same thing, that it feels better without one. as long as you trust each other, you should be fine. withdrawl is not 100% effective when it comes to pregnancy, but you shall do what you wish, or think is right, not neccessarily what feels best.
2007-05-24 04:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by helpful and helpless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. having sex without a condom does feel better.. but still theres the risk of getting pregnant. if he really cares for you and your safety he will wear one so he doesnt get you pregnant. or spread any std either of you may have without knowing.
2007-05-24 04:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Peace and Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather not wear a condom, but that doesn't interfere with my ability to, you know, not want to catch a permanent disease or get someone pregnant.
2007-05-24 04:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by zombiehive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men usually prefer not to wear condoms because they feel more without. however, make him wear one. i'm sure he'll prefer a condom to child support. if he respects you, he will. and trust isn't going to stop you conceiving...even if he pulls out you can get pregnant
2007-05-24 04:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by xangel123x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex without a condom does feel better, but any grown adult should use one without question.
2007-05-24 04:31:22 · answer #11 · answered by cpj79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋