question. she does something bad so I deliberately do something to hurt her feelings, she gets hurt and does the same to me, over and over and over. what do you think of this type of a relationship
2007-05-24 04:12:04 · 26 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a destructive relationship. In order to put an end to this type of behavior you have to talk it out. Don't go out and fight and try to hurt each other to "get even". You have to learn to fight fair. Also if you can't work it out between the two of you get someone else involved (therapist) and if that doesn't work then I think ending the relationship would be best. This type of behavior is a pattern and it is not conducive for a healthy relationship.
Good Luck
2007-05-24 04:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ Heavenly ☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should both just stop playing with each others hearts. You or her can end up getting really hurt in the end. Trust me if you both are just trying to hurt each other then there is no point to having a relationship. Go find someone who cares about you and who willing not to try and hurt you.
2007-05-24 04:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by F3d*uP*WiT*T3x@$*ThUg$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship that might end in more hurt than you can think of. Talk to each other, see whats causing these problems between the two of you and try to resolve it. If there is no solution, then maybe its time to part ways to prevent you two from further hurting each other's feelings.
2007-05-24 04:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love-Hate relationship. Get out of it. Anyone that would purposely do something to hurt another human being to get back at them is not in a person who is respectful or courteous. Is this the kind of person you want to become? Is this the type of person you want to be with?
It is obvious that neither one of you have grown up and neither one of you can handle conflict which is a major part of life, learning and growing up.
2007-05-24 04:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by belen2499 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should go your seperate ways. Sounds like you have a competition on who can hurt who the worst. That's not a healthy way to be in a relationship with someone. Split up nicely and leave it like that.
2007-05-24 04:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hateful relationship. You two are just doing things to get back at one another and it's not healthy. It's time to end it.
2007-05-24 04:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should sit down and talk if you really deep down do love her. Maybe you both aren't ready for a relationship. That is nothing bad. Some people just aren't. I honestly think you should just sit down and talk it out though and if it continues to happen, then go your seperate ways.
2007-05-24 04:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by .:*~Heather~*:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i dnt think it wil work out very well because you 2 are just goin 2 b hurt by eachotha until you hate 1 an other may b you shud js end it b4 it get out ov hand
2007-05-24 04:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An unstable relationship with all the meaningfullness and love as 3 year old has for his playmate.
2007-05-24 04:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it sux i am in the same boat, i hate it, i just want a normal relationship , a healthy relationship like any one else, i think that tht kind of relationship is toxic, and needs to go other ways
2007-05-24 04:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋