male exotic dancer/stripper?

Question

i am 28 and when i was in college i would dance for girls at parties and stuff. i was told i can do it for a living. i work out a lot and am big into physical fitness. i have a great career, but my life is bring, professional,etc. i am going to keep my career, but i would like to strip for girls at night part-time. the thing is that it would have to be a secret or i will lose my career. how can i advertise myself and where to get the work? in college girls would just ask me , word of mouth type of thing. but now i am in dallas, texas and dont know how or where to advertise myself--help anyone???

Answer 1

no man... i know texas is big but people talk okay.. sooner or later they will find out about ur night job and poof there goes ur career... since u say u hav muscles.. then go for modelling then.. dude

Answer 2

I am from east texas and I know for sure that there are a few agencies so to speak that do the "esscort" type of thing. They would most likely take the fee charged to the ladies and you would take the tips! Shop around...that is a great way to get started and be anonamous at the same time. Get with some wedding coordinators and give them your card (stripping profession, not your career card) and let them know you are trying to get started in the business but you want your real name to remain private. They would be able to recomend you to brides that are planning on having these types of bachalorette parties. Get an email address used only for this, and have business cards made, there is a place online that will make you 200 for free if you pay the shipping. On the card I would put "Professional Entertainment for Ladies, or Women" or something, with your "stage name" and the email address. If business starts to pick up you might get a restricted and unlisted phone line for use with this too.

Good luck and I hope you find the right answer for your question!
Business card website below...


P.S. I had a friend that was very careful with her "second career" and when someone found out they kicked her our of Baylor Law School...it will cause problems with your career especially if it is competative...someones girlfriend will be there and go back and tell them.

Answer 3

First, a comment to Basketcase88: As mentioned by others, it's the bachelorette thing. (Yes, that's spelled correctly, even tho Answers' spellchecker hasn't heard of the word.) More interestingly, Ethan has posted in 5 categories, and the only place he's getting answers as good as here is under Marriage/Divorce, where the only connection would be divorcee parties, if they exist. Go figure!
Second, I think IndiaBombayRice has a good start on the answer, Ethan. Like others, he says you can't keep your career and strip, and he's absolutely right. I mean, would you believe even a sitcom where a guy's in your proposed situation and he ISN'T found out and forced to make a choice?
So you have two options:
1. Do something else to show off your great bod, something respectable enough that when you're eventually and inevitably found out, it won't hurt your career. That would presumably be PG-rated modeling, done under another name to indicate respect for your profession. (It doesn't make any sense that using another name matters, but I think your bosses would all agree it does.)
2. If that's not going to float your boat the way stripping does (and I can't imagine it would compare), or if your career won't even stand modeling: Consider dumping that and supporting yourself as a stripper. It's certainly a major income cut, particularly at first, but if you also adjust your spending, and get professional advice on investing, you might actually be financially okay by the time you age out. (If you don't mind going gay-for-pay, stripping for guys, you might be able to keep going for years longer; many of us have a daddy/bear fetish that I don't think str8 women share.)
Before you go for option 2, however, you ought to get professional advice on how good you really are, how much you can make immediately and potentially, maybe take dance lessons to improve your act (up to the point where it won't improve your take any further), get liposuction to achieve incredible abs instead of a merely good set, and whatever else goes into being a truly bombshell stripper. For one thing, you'll probably have to consider relocating and/or going on the road a lot.
Afterthought: You don't say what your professional career is. There MAY be an Option 3. Or I may be fantasizing; you'll know better than I do, Ethan.
Say you're a lawyer, you *could* set up independent, so that you don't have any bosses but your clients. In that case, somewhere in my office I'd keep a comparatively small pic of myself at the thong-only stage. That way, every potential client is eventually going to ask about it, you tell them that you're a part-time stripper, and they either decide to retain you or not, with full disclosure (you should pardon the phrase). And some of them will ask for your other business card!
On the other end, it wouldn't hurt to offer a strip as "Ethan, the Lusty Lawyer (and He Really Is One)," starting from a full 3-piece suit with a briefcase--which you'd later pick up and skin out of your thong behind. Make sure you have some of your lawyer cards in the briefcase. (Incidentally, the suit-&-tie thing is another gay-guy fetish.)

Answer 4

First of all, you can't do it locally. The last thing you would need happen would be going to your bosses house or something! So, take it to the near by towns. Run ads in the paper under exotic male dancer. make up a business card with your Dancer name and a non-work related phone number. Pass them out at the clubs or at the parties. You can also go to some of the bridal shops and leave a flyer.
Good luck

Answer 5

I don't know where you can go but word of advice; if you want to keep your career; don't be stupid to do something that can jepordize your career. When someone do something stupid as to strip and lose their career when most of us are looking for a good career is crazy. Many college students (mostly girls) would love to see male strippers but the question is "How much are you willing to put on the line for that as to come to your career?"

Answer 6

Go talk to other male exotic dancers in the area and ask them how they do it. By the way, you will lose your career. Someone's wife somewhere will recognize you and it will get back to your boss.

Answer 7

FIRST OFF DO NOT USE YOUR REAL NAME...AS FOR ADVERTISING GET CARDS MADE AND PUT THEM UP IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD..AT THE LAUNDRY MAT,FOOD STORES ,IN BARS,ANY PLACE THAT HAS BULLETIN BOARDS...IF YOU MEET SOME GIRLS HAND THEN YOUR CARD...NOW IS THE TIME THERE ARE A LOT OF WEDDINGS IN JUNE AND PARTIES TO ATTEND GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Advertise yourself just like girls do in the paper under escort. It's all good

Answer 9

unless ur a priest, i don't see why having a side job stripping would affect ur career, but that's beside the point. like the one above said, someone's wife somewhere will see u...male strippers...ewwww!

Answer 10

what does this have to do with a wedding?????