My little brothers need women in their lives, and I mean that sincerely. They're a year apart and both in college, and all through highschool they used to have girls all over the place (friends, dates, flings, whatever). Now they can't even land a real phone number (I know you're thinking they must be chumps, but trust me, if they were I wouldn't be asking this question).
From what I gather they don't put themselves out there enough, but how much should they do? They're both live at home, they don't have their own cars (although they use mine whenever) and they work and go to school almost every day of the week.
They're good-looking guys, but they seem to have absolutely no luck lately (which is turning into 8months pretty soon!). Any suggestions as to what they ought to be doing? Do they really have to move out/buy a car/go to work and school less just to land a date these days?
2007-05-24 03:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither of them are 21 yet, so frequenting bars are out...
2007-05-24 03:53:34 · update #1
It's a community college, not a regular one with dorms and such.
2007-05-24 04:04:23 · update #2
This really doesn't seem like your problem. You need to take care of your business and stop worrying yourself about them. You have a life too.
2007-05-24 03:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by {♥Sadie King♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sweet that your such a worried sister!!! I'm like that with my nephews. Take them out with you!!! I like to go to the bar and tell my nephew to point out a girl, the prettiest girl and i'll get you her phone number. I never fail them. Have fun with it. A sister is the best place to get to know a guy. Sometimes guys aren't as courageous as they appear and with a fun sister there finding out who's single and fun, you can't go wrong.
2007-05-24 04:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by mnmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it be so hard if they are in college....better women with bright futures are on campus and are better for them....never get with a girl that always in a bar or a night club
2007-05-24 03:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the want to wait until they are married. I would just let them be who they are.
2007-05-24 03:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be themselves and not to look for love, let it find them.
2007-05-24 03:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because he is ugly or he might not be the type
2007-05-24 04:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are adults, it's not your business.
2007-05-24 03:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋