this girl i like i quit drinkin smokin and alot of stuff is that right or wrong?
2007-05-24 03:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by Justin D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on what you change. bad habits like drinking and smoking is good to get rid of. but dont change your personality if you don't feel comfortable. do whatever makes you happy but just be yourself in most cases. i wish you all the luck with your relationship.
2007-05-24 03:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong, you shouldn't need to change for anyone. If that is what she wants, what is she going to want to change about you next? It won't stop here, there will be other things. Women that try to change a man are the worse ones out there next to those that cheat. She is controlling and self-centered, only thinking about what she wants. Run from this life killer as quick as possible.
And don't listen to any of those stupid women that tell you otherwise.
2007-05-24 03:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course its right if u love her then u would give anything 4 her. including drinking and smoking. Tell her how u feel. But dont change urself to something ur not. She has to accept u 4 who u r.
2007-05-24 03:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the change is for the better...dropping bad habits, etc. then change is good. Don't let anyone change the essence of your being, though, Grasshopper (haha!). Good luck!
2007-05-24 04:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really up to that person to decide. Change can be good...unless you neglect your responsibilities and loved ones. Giving up drinking and smoking is never bad because it will prolong your life.
2007-05-24 04:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just fine to change if it's positive changes you make, like the ones you have. If you make negative changes to yourself, i.e. opposite ones than you have, I don't think that's okay.
2007-05-24 03:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by EP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo dont change for her. if u gotta change for someone, do it for urself. she should love u the way u already are. and if u change for the better, dont do it for her. do it for yourself, coz u will be more affected by it. yeah, she plays a big role in your life, but it is YOUR life, and you cant blame her after changing yourself. just dont be someone u dont wanna be. be real
2007-05-24 04:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she got you to stop drinking and smoking that good. thats really good. as long as shes not trying to chang your personality. i mean look a grese.
2007-05-24 03:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by yamsweetpotato22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its your decision then its right --- plus those are addictive habits that reduce your capacity to enjoy life --- just my 2 cents worth --- have fun
2007-05-24 03:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its neither man what ever dicisions u make in life will neither be right or wrong
2007-05-24 03:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by atv400ex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋