How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating when he acts the same as usual and he is still loving and affectionate to you? I've asked him if he was and he said no. We used to be intimate several time's a week and now it's maybe once a week. I try to be intimate with him when we go to bed and when we are alone and he alway's says that he's either tired or not right now... What would you think? I keep getting this feeling that he's been with someone else. When I asked him about it, we got into an argument and when I apologized he became really sweet. He said that he doesn't want to be with anyone else but me. He has been acting extremely nice lately and being very compassionate. He even passed up a weekend away with the guys so he could spend it with me. But i still feel like he's hiding something. He's just acting alot different than before. What do you think? Any answers are so greatly appreciated.
2007-05-24 03:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by SWEETPEA!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it dont sound like he is
maybe he is just stressed or tired form work
your relationship is prolly past the infatuaton phase and is getting more relaxed....
if you feel something is wrong talk to him thats the main problem with relationships theses days theres no communication just assumptions.....
if you do think he is cheating you could get nosy check his email and phone?
but it just sounds like you are being insecure and overthinking it.
talk to him and ask why the sudden changes.....
2007-05-24 03:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST your gut. I am serious on this one. I am not proud but I have been the other woman and I have been cheated on. I know how men can be. They can suck up to you and then cheat on you in the same hour. Ask around a little, you will be suprised how much info his buddies will tell you when you've established a friendship with them.
2007-05-24 03:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by raksy101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes hes cheating on you. If a guy any guy gose from several times a week to maybe once a week hes getting it somewhere else.
2007-05-24 03:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by sunflower77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try this, send him flowers or something, at his work place or his house,, or somewhere as long as he gets it. dont mention you name on the card, just say something like "i miss you, call me later" then later on, if he doesnt mention anything to you then that could mean hes cheating... if he does mention it to you that he got flowers, or he called you. say you didnt send him any flowers. then the next day do it again, if he tell you about it again, then hes not cheating. hahaha well its just a plan, u can modify or make your own one. Good Luck, i hope hes not cheating =)
2007-05-24 03:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Me Anything! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest...he should get rid of you. He isn't cheating, he is just being himself and you are freaking out. What guy wants to have a girlfriend who is jealous over nothing, and suspicious of your every move? Not any guy I know, we need women with less drama and more trust.
You are not a good catch.
2007-05-24 03:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is sooooo weird... i think he did something cuz how is he gonna say not right now to sex but then be all extremely nice to you all of a sudden. that is just so weirdf if i were you i would try to figure wut is up....
2007-05-24 03:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Destiny E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋