he knows my phone doesnt work and i try my best to get a phone to call him but when i do he gets mad for me not calling him the day before and i let him know that but he doesnt believe me and he always thinks im just lying to him and telling him that my phone doesnt work but he thinks its because im talking to another guy and he doesnt believe me that i have no reason to lie to him i tell him everything thats going on in my life from my parents to my friends.
2007-05-24 03:32:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he trusted you, he wouldn't accuse you of lying. Why would he want to be with you if he thought you would do that? Why would you want to be with someone that thinks so low of you?
2007-05-24 03:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you have been together. I don't think its long but I should think a few months.
Take this as a warning sign. He is obviously quite insecure and feels that he is going to be betrayed. There is nothing you can do to stop this happening, no amount of your telling him why is going to change his behavior. Does that sound harsh? I don't want to be horrible, you probably don't want to hear this, but it is most likely the truth. If you continue on with this guy you will find slowly slowly he takes more control of your life. You will let him because it will make for a peaceful time. You will go out less, if you aren't already. He will start to moan that you let your friends and family interfere in you life, thus causing a distance between them and you.
Take a good look at whats going on, and as you are already asking us you know what you should do.
Be strong and be sensible.
2007-05-24 03:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be patient with him. Love is patient, love is kind.
However, if he doesn't listen to you ever, then he has a listening problem and or a trust problem. If it's prolonged for over 2, 3 months.. then you should consider standing up to him and telling him to 1. trust you and 2. listen and believe you.
Tell him that you love him but you are busy at a time. If you are actually not busy--such as.. he knows you have a break of 3 hours from getting out of a class or something like that.. he's got a point.
But as long as he trusts you and believes you.. it shouldn't matter. Just be reassuring and eventually it will fade away.
2007-05-24 03:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by brownebloke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow get outta there fast!!
he sounds controlling and possessive
having to know your every move and everything
this could develop into something bad watch for the signs
has he ever hit you or threatened it or gotten verbally abusive
yea i would leave him he doesnt sound like someone you should be with
be careful though cuz soemone with this personality could freak when you leave him make sure people know you are gonna break it off so you're safe
not trying to scare you but i had a friend who had a very controlling and abusive husband and he started stalking her after she left him
ok maybe i am trying to scare you but if that keeps you safe its worth it
watch for the signs!!!
2007-05-24 03:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like others have stated, he has trust issues. Jealousy is a stinky cologne, and his paranoia will only grow along with his desire to control you.
Be careful, or else soon you'll be explaining to the cops that he didn't mean to hit you, that he's a good man, that you just fell asleep under the truck & he ran over your head.
You deserve & can do better.
2007-05-24 03:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by know 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to report in to him. If he acts this way now, just think how much worse it's gonna get. Move on and be with someone who respects you enough to believe you when you tell him something. Life's too short to put up with someone like that.
2007-05-24 03:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by DOT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so stupid, everyone knows a phone relationship is a bad one. Being on the phone all day is anoying. And he probably is just trying to check up on you when he calls. Bad he doesn't trust you and he's a phone guy.
2007-05-24 03:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by ~Soul Socks~ aka <Spiderwebs& 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 05:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure he may even be guilty of doing the same if someone accuse you of doing something you never got caught doing then they may be doing just that they are accusing you of. if that is pressuring you breaking you down then yes get out of it but first tell him how it makes you feel and then drop him a card in the mail this is another form of communication and yall can write when you cant talk
2007-05-24 03:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by naomi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb his paranoid a**. He sounds like a control freak. He acts like this now, imagine how he will be /if/when you move in together or worse, were to get married. Get out while you, or you will regret it the rest of your life.
2007-05-24 03:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by ericbrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋