2007-05-24 03:25:19 · 22 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it went on for years, but i was in love with him and couldnt do it anymore. i have a bf now, the thing is im still in love with him. i want to know if he loves me before i can truly move on. could he feel more? he always said he wasnt ready. was it more then that? he did say he was stupid for not making me more then a friend...
2007-05-24 03:33:15 · update #1
should i confront him on if he has feelings for me before i move on? i know he was very scared of being cheated on. his ex totally humuliated him in that way.
2007-05-24 03:49:14 · update #2
they might just like the friendship
2007-05-24 03:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by deezNutz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ironically, this doesn't sound like a friends with benefits arrangement to me at all - especially since you mention that you still love him. From what I see, he was your boyfriend, or maybe your exclusive partner, and at the same time he was not prepared to commit to you and have you become his only partner. Maybe I'm reading into this wrong? If you have a current boyfriend now, you need to make the decision for yourself which man you'd like to continue to pursue, and then maybe it's time to leave the one not chosen in the past where he belongs? Good luck!
2007-05-24 10:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they like being with you? I've had a friend with benefits before, and we are still friends today, because she is a nice person to be with. We just decided that the benefits part had been fun, but it was time to end it. C'est la vie!
2007-05-24 10:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Pseudonym45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he/she has another friend with benefits that is occupping his/her attention at the moment and your there just in case things don't work out with the other person. Some people just need to be assured they have access to sex
2007-05-24 10:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by mnmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't describe the circumstances...I'm going to guess that maybe he got a steady girlfriend and to sleep with you would be cheating on her.
It says to me that your friendship is valuable to him and the most important part of your relationship, so he's willing to give up the sex and remain your friend.
2007-05-24 10:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have someone else they are interested in pursuing a future with and no longer want to sleep with you. But they want to keep you around in case it doesn't work out with the other person.
2007-05-24 10:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's called "friends". Many people have them, you should try it.
If a Friends with Benefits relationship can't handle the loss of sex, then it wasn't much in the way of friends to begin with.
2007-05-24 10:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe b/c she really has feelings for you and if you aren't benefiting anymore with her she probably still wants you to be around. i would ask her what her intentions are.
2007-05-24 10:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by kelly c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They might love you, and its painful to have a physically intimate relationship based on nothing, with no reciprocation, per se. Maybe.
2007-05-24 10:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up....... just in case something goes wrong with the other friend your in the batters box! your being used
2007-05-24 10:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is building up his benefit package for when they will become available again.
2007-05-24 12:18:55 · answer #11 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋