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I met a beautiful Muslim woman from Omman, Jordan that I want to date.

2007-05-24 03:18:36 · 13 answers · asked by Harry 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

I would have to bring her to America and re-program her huh? I would never convert to Islam. Maybe she would convert to Christianity after she felt all of my love.

2007-05-24 03:28:09 · update #1

Angel, I think that most educated muslim women from the middle east that are open minded would love to try life on this side of the fence. Too many boundaries where they come from. I know some muslim women here in the states that would not have it any other way than the American way. They will never go back to live where they came from.

2007-05-24 03:36:59 · update #2

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Dating itself is already not allowed....!

2007-05-24 03:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Well, dating in itself is not allowed - at least not in the traditional sense. It's more like courtship than dating, wherein the couple spends time together but never alone, always in a public place or with a chaperon, and also women are not allowed to marry (and therefor date) outside of Islam.

But also, maybe this girl isn't religious and doesn't practice. If she does, I suggest you do some hard thinking before asking her to pull away from her religion.

EDIT: I just saw your additional details, and you know what - never mind. You're not in it for the right reasons if you're wanting to "re-program her". Just stay away from her.

Oh, and as an ending note, that probably won't work. Because I'm an American and have lived here all my life and I practice.

2007-05-24 03:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Independence_Individuality 4 · 2 0

I think a Muslim woman from Arabia would not date an American if she was a true Muslim.. not because your American but because she should not date. I live here in Jordan.. Jordan is not so behind like people may think. They have progressed and have many moderate views. Many Muslim women here do not wear hijab. Women here work.. some even work as police...they wear pants here......who are you to say that you would have to reprogram them. What I see, if an American man could be so lucky as to marry an Arabian woman he would be set in his life. These women are strong. They are running the house. Cooking, cleaning and taking care of the children. The families are very tight here unlike in America. They know who their cousins and uncles are etc.. America has so many satellite families we have lost track of what is important. We need to start putting importance back on family and helping one another.. rather then come on y/a and complain and judge people we do not know.

2007-05-24 03:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by je 6 · 1 0

Muslim women 1) Do not date and 2) are expected to only marry Muslim men. They can marry non-Muslim men, but only if they convert to Islam before the marriage. The chances that she would convert to Christianity are quite slim. I am sorry.

2007-05-24 06:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 0 0

I am a substitute teacher and have a family from the Middle East here. One of the 8th grade boys says that he would "NEVER marry an American woman. The woman here are too free to do as they please." He said in his village there is no such thing as a restaurant. The women cook where he comes from. I myself love to cook and do probably most of the things the women there are expected to do. But they are not treated as well as we are SUPPOSED to be treated here in the USA. Some men are not very good to their wives here. But I would think that any women that comes from over there would love to be treated with respect and honor for a change. Although, I have seen this boy with his mother. He's very attentive to her, and seems to show her the highest regard.

2007-05-24 03:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Angel L 3 · 1 0

I think that you would have to become Muslim (although it appears to be OK for Muslim MEN to marry Christian women -- but not the other way around).

And as one person already noted, I don't think that strict Muslins date.

2007-05-24 03:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0 0

Oh,i think it is a little difficult for me to answer. But Here is a site you can find many devoted Muslims and discuss with them:http://muslimpepole.zu5.net/

2007-05-27 22:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All dating is not allowed in Islam,only marriage.

2007-05-24 03:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by shockoshocko 3 · 1 0

no,muslim women are not allowed to date or marry a non-muslim.dating is not allowed in islam anyway

2007-05-24 03:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

you dont **** her.. no dating..
u need to convert to islam marry her..
why u want to date her?
if u want her to be like you better find someone from america itself.. no need to marry her (which that makes her so special)

2007-05-27 17:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Zam 2 · 0 0

Well, if she was a practicing Muslim, she would never even attempt any relation with you. may Allaah save her from you as well as your culture.

2007-05-24 05:10:08 · answer #11 · answered by Simplicity 4 · 1 0

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