Well, I have been going with this guy for about 9 months now and about three months ago our relationship was at a stand still and he just totally broke up with me! He kept sending me mixed signals and saying that he is too young for commitment, and then one day, he got up the nerve and said, "baby don't cry, but I think we need some time apart. I thought is this guy serious and I let it get me down, well the next day he calls me and says that he apologizes and would I consider going back out with him? So I am IN LOVE with this guy and I can't help but to say yes, I have liked him since I was three, loved him since I was nine, and just totally fell in love with him at the age of fifteen, I am crayz about this guy and I can't picture my life without him. But now I think about that tim three months ago and I can't help but to cry constantly!!! I know that we are back together but it will NEVER be the same!!!
HELP ME
2007-05-24 02:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in this situaton, and honestly, it probably won't last. Mainly because you can't step back into a situation you left behind and expect it to be the same, because everything changes everyday, you know? My guess is, here soon, he'll do it again. If he does, that should be your sign to forget him and move =) I know it sounds like something you'd never think of doing, but you know, if he did it once, he may do it again and you don't want to have to keep going through all of that =) Good luck!
2007-05-24 02:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bettr u cry now than u crying later wen u regret ur decision. I know u love him a lot. But u cnt let him have his way all the time. U need to tell him that u need some time to think on this relationship. Just b away from him for sometime and indulge urself in some other activity. u need to get away frm him at the moment. Coz i can figure out that he is hovering all around u and also in ur thoughts.
Also if he is ready to wait for u, u will know that he truly loves u. So just consider being away frm him as his test of love.
2007-05-24 09:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by sash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is a strong emotion which lets you heal, I think you should really take care of you first, and start learning to depend on yourself and be your own rock. If you are back into this relationship and are have reservations you should talk about it with him and see if you can heal, because if you don't it will just manifest into something uncontrollable... take care and good luck!
2007-05-24 09:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by gisellejessis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be the same.... Keep constantly making this relationship better and get closer and closer to him... It sounds like you love him enough... Things will become even better than before... Guys do stupid things and say stupid stuff that we really dont mean or that, but hold onto this relationship... it sounds like it might last
2007-05-24 09:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never wrong to cry sweetie! Buck up and think ur young and u'll find another guy.... if he doesnt come back then he wasnt worth it in the first place:)
2007-05-24 09:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to b tooooooo sencetive.its ok to cry.......nd if u really love him thingswill definately fall in place
2007-05-24 09:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anushka............. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't cry for this guy. you're worthed! juz find another guy.
2007-05-24 09:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by vbee82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relasionship sounds very toxic for you and very very convenient for him.
2007-05-24 09:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea stop it
2007-05-24 09:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying is ok..its what girls do
2007-05-24 09:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋