So I have a dilemma.
My maid of honour wanted to do the traditional bachelorette party; lots of drinking, male strippers lol and what not...you get the idea. but the thing is, my fiances sister is very conservative and would not be interested in that what so ever (shes a brides maid). so then i was thinking, we could go to a casino and just have fun. BUT my little sister is in the wedding party...and shes only 16. so we cant do that either.
any ideas on what we could do all together without leaving any one out or feeling uncomfortable?
2007-05-24 02:20:06 · 5 answers · asked by dreamcatcher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
do a spa day... get a massage, get the manicure and pedicure and facial. that is what i am going to be doing for my bride since she doesn't drink and can't stay awake long enough to go and party. then later on after all that see if any of the spa goers want to go do the casino thing and the lots of drinking and strippers. that way you are including everyone to begin with and then you can have fun with others later on and people won't feel uncomfortable with other activities and they don't feel obligated to go.
2007-05-24 03:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a fancy dinner at a special restaurant, a little dancing (if you can fnd a place that you sister will be able to get in) and then go back to someone house and geek out with a slumber party. We did this at my BF's bachelorette and it was the best one I've ever attended. Much more fun and relaxing for everyone involved and a night with your girlfriends is really what you want. Also, if I could make one suggestion, have all your girls dress in black and you dress in white, you will real stand out!
Have fun!
2007-05-24 02:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you are not suppose to have a say in what goes on so just let the moh plan what she wants to and if people feel uncomfortable then they dont have to come...I am planning one right now and it is going to be a sex toy party and the bride has no idea and she is a very calm woman so just let the moh have fun and do what she wants to and just enjoy it dont worry about everyone else its just a girls night out
2007-05-24 02:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have a slummber party ? you know like when you were teenagers . stay up all night and watch spooky movies or chick flicks or something of that nature ? it is so much fun . give everybody a facial and do their nails . that way you all could be together and no one would feel uncomfortable . good luck and congrats on the wedding .
2007-05-24 02:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a day at a day spa were everyone is pampared (hair done, mani & pedi, makeup) and then have a tea party (its more conservative) or a late dinner (allows you to be a little less conservative).
Good Luck!!
2007-05-24 02:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Noire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋