i got past his faults, but he couldn't look past the age difference "wtf"?

Question

i got past his faults as in he not in school, and he smokes weed and he has a job

im 15 and he juss turned 18 not to long ago
i really been thinkin like yea i really gon stay with him cuz all that matters is that he a really sweet boyfriend

so i get on da phone wit him yesterday and i asked him wat on ya mind he said the age difference and i told him if sumthing is really bothering u find a way to let go and den he was like so wat u wanan do i told i don't wanna break up cuz i relized wat a great person he is

the age thing was bothering him and he said it really been on his mind
so we broke up

he called bacc later we talked as friends
hung up, he called again 5 min later talkin bout do u wanna go out on the lo' i said no but it wasnt his idea it was his friends

so he called again 5 min later talkin bout u wanna go bacc out and me i said yes i don't know how to feel right now cuz i go bacc out with him im happi

should i stay or should i go

Answer 1

He does risk jail time if your relationship goes past kissing. I made the same decision back in the day and in a way I still feel bad about choosing not to continue a relationship with this girl I really liked. But on the other hand it probably was the right choice.

For all his faults the guy is making the right decision.

You need to find a guy your own age.

If both your parents told the guy they approve of the relationship, he would probably date you if he does like you. But you gotta be honest about his faults if you approach them about that. If he still doesn't want to date you, he is just not that into you.