I really like this guy after our third date- he said to me to call him while we said goodbye. I was worried that he was not that interested, as he did not try to fix a time for the next date. But I like him –I told him already at the end ( he was ill at that time so we did not say too much ) what should I do to tell him without scare him and let myself down? It has been a couple of days I did not hear from him either… ( well he surely is not dead )
2007-05-24 01:54:16 · 14 answers · asked by confusedgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was not ill- he was hangovered!! I took him out for a walk on our date..
2007-05-24 02:18:20 · update #1
u no, he's prob thinking the same thing about you..."she hasn't called... mayb she doesn't like me" so just ask him out on a romantic date (cinema/restaurant) and tell him how you feel!!! Im sure he wont through himself out of the nearest window or start crying....
2007-05-24 02:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't possibly tell you what to do, because I'm not in the same situation. But I do have some experience in moving out of my mom's house. One of my friends that I go to college with, got her own place, which was right beside her parents house, & down the street from my moms. So I knew she would feel comfortable, because I wasn't that far away from her. Once I turned 18 I wanted my own independence, so I told her what I wanted to do. Trust me, I wouldn't have moved out without her approval. It definetly made it easier. Yes, she still calls me a couple of times a day, & even comes to visit me a few times a month, but so far our relationship has improved because of me gaining more independence. If you can afford it go ahead. At first they might not like the idea so much, but they will learn to accept it as they find that you are responsible, & can make it on your own. Hope I helped! Blondie
2016-04-01 05:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sylvia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the third date i wouldnt be scared to call a guy. Dont get too worked up, its only the third date, let the guy call you and make plans for the next one. Maybe hes sick or something.
2007-05-24 01:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by broz215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard to do the right thing when you feel really ill maybe he was worried you might catch it and now he thinks your not interested because you've not called him just call him and see if hes OK ask him if he Fancy's coming round for some food then see how it goes don't rush just take it easy get comfortable in each others company and things will work out if there meant to be good luck
2007-05-24 02:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by old-bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time u dnt wanna seem desperate do you give it till the end of the wk then give him a call jus ask him if he wants to meet up agaiin and dnt mention anything bout u really like him cz its prob too much jus chill and have fun for a while and see how things progress
2007-05-24 02:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a woman and give him a call, at least to say get well. And simply confront him, it is hard thing to do, cause sometimes we men are just as ignorant about woman and there advances to us! That's just some men, I am one! Listen if you expect a relationship to be perfect it not going to happen, and if expect the hurt it will. So love is tough game and it may be hurtful, knowing that hold your chin up and be yourself! and ask the question when he is well.
2007-05-24 02:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Whip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So call him, he asked for you to call him at the end of date did he not?? Maybe since your not calling him he thinks your not intrested.
Also, I never fix times for future dates right away, i hate planning ahead. Im not saying hes the same but its possiable.
2007-05-24 01:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think he did it to see if you were interested enough in him, ad that he did not want to feel he was pushing himself onto you.
When you are ready, call him with a really lovely date, picnic by the river, or boating. Go on, you only live once!
2007-05-24 01:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by D8pstblu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was ill, wait another day or two, and then call to see if he's alright. You won't scare him. Don't linger on the phone or wait for him to suggest a date, chat for a minute or two then ring off. He'll appreciate your concern.
2007-05-24 01:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him... if ill ask him is he wants a naught nurse to kiss him better and who he wont get into trouble if he paws the nurse.
Also ask him out and ask him what would he like you to wear.
Now dont know your age so tone it according to age.
but be fun and naughty and affectionate and approachable... (and paw able).
maybe suggest a swim and he can come and help you pick which bikini to wear.
2007-05-24 01:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋