..were unhappy in your relationship....?
2007-05-24 01:39:51 · 55 answers · asked by cockneyboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd rather sack my bird 1st if it ever came to it
2007-05-24 01:50:02 · update #1
would you? I think me and my husband have just split up so I may be single and not need to have an affair!!
2007-05-24 01:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. If I was unhappy in a relationship then I would do something to fix it. Like find the source of why I am unhappy. But I'm married now and that means I am with my husband for life, through thick and thin. If a temptation should come along, that's all it would be is a temptation b/c my husband means the world to me. But if you aren't happy do something about it, don't lie and cheat instead of stepping up and doing something about it. The significant other doesn't need to be treated that way.
2007-05-24 01:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Linds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... If I was "unhappy" in my relationship I'd either talk abou tit with my boyfriend, break up with him, or take a time out from each other or something and see other people for a while. I wouldnt want to break my boyfriend's heart and disappoint God. I'm just saying, Christian or non Christian you should still do the right thing and do what is best and not have any affairs. Just do one of the top things above. :D Hope this helps XD
2007-05-24 01:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shashang 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unhappy for the day? No. Unhappy for an extended priod of time? Totally. You'd be surprised how many people are willing to help a girl out. Also surprised how many of these others that say no actually really would if confronted with the proper set of circumstances. Get off your moral high horses. Sometimes it's just fun. As long as you are careful(safe) what people don't know doesn't hurt them. It is a great ego boost for you as well as long as there are no "third person out" complications.
2007-05-24 02:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Just woke up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are unhappy for any reason i either talk it through with my partner and if it can't be resolved its best to break up, rather than to have an affair and make everyone in the situation unhappy
2007-05-24 01:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sonell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would end the relationship first, then take some time to be by myself and then start dating again. Cheating is never excusable.
It would also depend on why I was unhappy. If it was something that was fixable, I would try that first, and if it didn't work out then leave, but I would never cheat.
2007-05-24 01:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i personaly would not have an affair.but ifi was unhappy in a relationship i would not stay in it eigther as that is not a good thing and can lead to more trouble than it is worth.but if i still loved the guy i would try and work things out between us .I dont think that their is any good excuse for cheating on your partner no matter what the reason may be.
2007-05-24 01:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what my existing relationship was like, ie, if I was with someone who I had little or no emotional/physical contact with then yes, Id probably seek it elsewhere if I knew I wouldnt ever get that from my partner again..and if I could be sure no one would get hurt.... and I liked the other guy a hell of a lot! So yes, maybe, under the right circumstances with the right guy...perhaps!
2007-05-24 03:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Marilyn's Sister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would divorce my husband if I was planning an affair. It is the only fair thing to do. Let the other person go so they have the opportunity to find happiness, too. You also will not embarass your husband this way. If you sneak around and get caught (and you will get caught), it just embarasses the other person and they wonder if this has gone on longer than it actually has.
2007-05-24 01:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really love the person I would try hard to resolve all our problems because I believe if you are committed to a r/ship your ready to face all the challenges that will come your way but if the problem persist then I can think of something else like let go of our R/ship.
2007-05-24 01:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kit,s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I put the effort in to sort my relationship out - if I decided that after the effort made still didn't resolve things and make me happy then I would leave him and find someone else.
No point in hurting people if it can be avoided now is there.
2007-05-24 01:43:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋