I 've moved around alot to different states sence I was about 9 years old and I find myself doing the same thing now that I'm older adn have children and it's not just moving around but different things like cars I get tired of the same car quickly like in a month I don't like it anymore, and I left my husband lots a times we ended up back together but I don't know why I feel this way about everything please help me!!!!!!
2007-05-24 01:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're bored out of your mind and like change.
2007-05-24 01:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think this is a combination of a separation disorder and the ability to make a long term committment. I think that both can be handled by making a self discovery. Decide what you want and how you will go about it.
I think that you will find the best of answers within yourself.
I once had the same problem, I had moved with my ex-husband as much as 13 times a year. The itch to move has still remained in me. I just sat down and wrote all the things that I would accomplish by staying put now.
Staying put for the last 3 years, I have gained sooooo much!
I hope that you find what you are looking for, I am available to discuss this whenever you want.
My best wishes!
2007-05-24 01:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate having routine in your life, you're an adventurous person who's constantly changing her mind about what she really wants. That isn't to say that you are no longer in love with your husband or kids, it simply means that you're bored with life itself. You are scared that if you commit to anything that your life will become one big routine and this scares you, so you constantly change the things that you can control before they control you.
I think you should try and seek therapy, I know it sounds cliche but this could escalate until you no longer can control it.
Good Luck, Hope I Helped
2007-05-24 01:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by .x.Consume.x.Exist.x.Obey.x. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you are a little bored with routine. Might want to go to counseling and see if that can help. Admitting you have a problem is half the battle.
2007-05-24 01:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by norielorie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for a good counselor. Perhaps it is something left over from your tumultuous childhood - perhaps it's a personality quirk from something else
Only a good counselor and supportive family can help you discover what this is - and what to do about it.
Good luck!
2007-05-24 02:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋