I have a friend who I like going out with (movies, hanging in the park, etc). I would like to sleep with her on a regular basis but do not want to date her because I am fearing commitment at the moment (bad breakup with last one) but I also do not want to hurt her. Should I try the friends with benefits scenario (as everyone needs some lovin') and see how it goes or just leave it because I am not ready for a relationship and don't want to put her emotions at risk.
PS - I know she likes me and we have just fooled around - not taken it to the next level yet.
2007-05-24 00:02:39 · 11 answers · asked by Becker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex relationship - girlfriend cheated on me - ran off with the new guy after a year
2007-05-24 00:09:28 · update #1
talk to her ..... if she wants the same as you then go for it ... but if she wants a relationship , stay as friends for the time being ........us women arnt all bad we are capable of talking lol .... good luck
2007-05-24 00:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not something that is just your decision to make. You have something very special with this girl. My daughter has a very special guy friend that she loves dearly. They date other people and they do all kinds of things together as if they were a couple. They always tell each other "I Love You". They have talked about being more and are scared to mess up what they have. Both of them are in their 20's he is in medical school and she wants him to stay focused. They have decided to see what happens after school.
You need to talk to her about it. Sex can make a relationship stronger or break it up. The "unknown" can be very exciting. Finding out the unknown can be scary too.
GOOD LUCK
2007-05-24 09:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by mamajodieg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to talk about where you stand with each other. Tell her what you just told us. Even if she gets hurt now, at least you didn't mislead her. She'll appreciate that in the long run; if not, then you'll know well in advance of a serious relationship.
2007-05-24 07:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by AlphaSierra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sink or swim buddy ..if we keep holding back from things because of some past experiance or fear.. then we neglect to live in the presant and cannot enject our future with anything positive. go for it if you get hurt just remembver theres millions of us out there eventually there are bound to be bad experiences and good..youll never know if you dont try
2007-05-24 07:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by ANGiE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so ask her how she feels with sex buddies dont put it out there that u want her as one just she how she feels about them in general if shes okay with them why not ask her would she ever go with u as a sex buddie and tell her u would see what she says!! its a yes r no!!
2007-05-24 07:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right time to tell her the truth about what you want. That time will come.
2007-05-24 09:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, wait. Many women do not want the FWB relationship. They want more.
2007-05-24 07:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why does your past relationship make you so cautious?
2007-05-24 07:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well sleep with her and then when ur sick of it or u dont like her dump her
2007-05-24 07:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by nabeelnisan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think u wanna use her
2007-05-24 07:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by Capricorn girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋