So here's the story....
I was with a girl for 3 years and was madly in love with her. After a while I got content and stopped paying her as much attention as she should have, and we split up around December time. She got with someone else, and I've had a series of 1 week things, but none of the girls even compared, I can't seem to get her off my mind!
Ok, so we still speak on the phone every day for one reason or another. She stil asks her and my friends about me! I spoke to her recently and said i didn't want any contact with her coz it was making it too hard to move on and forge a relationship with anyone else!
When I said that, she changed her tone and started telling me she still loves me deeply and dosen't love her new boyfriend, but she's worried about dumping her new boyfriend to be back with me as he's a bit of a nutter!
Anyway, we're meeting up tomorrow without anyone knowing and I'd do anything to get her back, any reverse psycology tips.....
Thanks guys!
Kris
2007-05-23 23:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by kris d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just thought I'd add, I've had this same conversation with her a couple of times before, each time she said she needs more time. And the anxiety is driving me mad, I told her tomorrow is 'all or nothing' time! I notice she gets really really jealous if I say I've been out with someone else or if I say I'm not gonna make contact with her...
2007-05-23 23:58:02 · update #1
Tell her to come back to you and you will take care of the new boyfriend if he gives her any trouble.
2007-05-23 23:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she realises too that you are the one for her. Tell her how you feel if you haven't already and that you would like to give the relationship another go but she needs to finish with her boyfriend first. She doesn't need to tell him you are the reason she is finishing with him. Be careful though, make sure you truly believe she feels the same way about you and that it's not just because she is in an unhappy relationship at the moment and is trying to find a way out.
2007-05-24 06:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Emma G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that she still does love you,and to get jealous? well that's a possessive thing that she only wants you and no-one else.
Ask her why she left you or you her in the first place.
Just because you let it slip about your not paying attention doesn't mean you are not still loving her.
Perhaps you both need space to think.
Be more attentive to her,she might feel she,s wanted and not taken for granted(like we all sometimes do)
2007-05-27 13:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by First CHARLIE 7290 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse psychology? You mad? She already said she loves you. Just talk to her and convince her that whatever a nutter this guy is, you'll look after her and you should be together yada yada.
If you've gotta go play dirty mind games with her then its not meant to be.
2007-05-24 06:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by ashypoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really are in love with eachother then its offisive, she needs to face the fact and dump her fella because she is just hurting you and from wahat u say hurting her too...it might hurt her to breck up with the present bf but if want she wonts is else wer she has to go for it and follow her heart tell her that you still love her but love her enough that if she wants to stay with her bf u understand, that way she will fill like u do really care and she will love that...if she says she cant breackup with the bf u no she isnt going to for u but i think if u really want her back explain that u do want her but dont want her to make to wrong decision!! tell her to take her time but always keep in mind if your there pushing her saying what ever she picks your happy because she is happy that will make her feel like the one she is happy with is you!!
2007-05-24 06:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she obviously sounds like that she wants you back and u want her. just let her know how you feel when you c her and then she can take it from there, because at the end of the day, its going to be her choice to take you back or not so be kind and caring and show her u still love her
2007-05-24 06:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back together with her! Take her away from her insane boyfriend! It seems you both want to be together... Good luck!
2007-05-24 06:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Be honest and shes yours.
2007-05-24 07:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋